Watching you grow up beside me day by day, I feel it necessary to tell you something. Maybe you can't understand this letter now, but I still want to tell you something from the heart. Unconsciously, you have been with your mother for several years. From the day you were born, there was an extra wish card for your mother: to grow up with you safely. Your mother will try her best to stay with you when you grow up, but sometimes she is not with you. You should learn to protect yourself while I am away.
Pay attention to your health.
You often hear your mother tell your friends that "health is the capital of revolution", and now I want to give you this sentence. Because the first step to your safe growth is health. Some time ago, I saw a small video about mangosteen, and my mother thought it was very good. Remember that your favorite fruit is mangosteen, so mom will tell you the truth about mangosteen.
Every time I buy mangosteen, I like to hold it tightly in my small hand. When peeling mangosteen, you will say that the shell of mangosteen is too hard, and peeling mangosteen often will make your whole finger turn red. You said that mangosteen after peeling is like a cat's little paw, soft and easy to pinch. What mom wants to tell you is that mangosteen uses a hard shell to protect itself.
Your little vest and little * * * are like mangosteen shells, and their function is to protect you. Once your shell is peeled off, it will be "soft and easy to pinch" like mangosteen. Therefore, you must protect your "shell", once someone wants to peel it, learn to refuse. To the bad guys, you are like a lazy sheep in the eyes of the wolf. If you don't know how to refuse, you will be taken away like a lazy sheep. I believe you, like your mother, don't want to see such a terrible thing happen.
In addition to protecting your "shell", you should also pay attention to your own physical safety. Don't run too fast when playing, accidents will come at any time, and mom doesn't want to see your soft little body collide with your hard car. Don't just eat everything, stay away from junk food, and learn to say "no" to food given by strangers! Only by protecting your body can you grow as tall as your father and as generous as your uncle.
Take care of your kindness.
Although often taught to be kind, be measured and kind. Kindness is a good thing, not everyone can enjoy your kindness. To give kindness to the wrong person is to help others make mistakes. A few days ago, you told your mother that when you and Lulu were playing in the community, a person got lost and asked you to lead the way. Enthusiastic Lulu wants to take that person away, and you took Lulu away. Mom, I'm glad you did a good job in this matter.
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Remember: if a person really doesn't know the way, he will find some adults instead of young you. You never know whether the person who asks you for help is an angel or a devil. There is nothing wrong with kindness, but kindness should be based on protecting yourself.
Aesop, the writer who wrote Aesop's Fables, once said: "To be a man, we should distinguish between good and evil, and give warm hands and compassion to kind people. Don't believe that the wicked will get better. Even if you are patient with him, his nature will not change. " Seeing this sentence, my mother was deeply moved and shared it with everyone. Therefore, you should remember this sentence as you remember Aesop's fable.
Mom tells you a short story: Tintin and Dangdang are two kittens. They are good friends. Tintin is a bit heavy, he can't catch any fish and often goes hungry. Dangdang is very flexible and catches fish quickly. Dangdang didn't want Tintin to starve, and he would catch two more fish for Tintin every time. On one occasion, Dangdang was ill and caught very few fish, so he only gave Ding Ding a fish. When Tintin came back, he said to Dangdang, who was sleeping, "Why are you so stingy? Give me a fish. You gave me two before. "
But Tintin forgot that if it weren't for Dangdang, it couldn't even eat a fish. So you see, not all goodwill can be reciprocated. For some people who are "not kind" at heart, your kindness will make them take it for granted. There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. Baby, please remember that your kindness should be sharp. When facing the world, remember to put on armor for your kindness.
Guard your heart.
Life is a polyhedron, you can't cover everything. Mom doesn't ask you to achieve much. Besides health, she also wants you to have happiness. You once told your mother that one thing you hate most is "watching other people's children", so her mother never told you this sentence. Don't envy the edge of others, don't fight for anything, just follow your heart. In Doraemon, Jingxiang never argues for anything, so everyone likes her, but Pang Hu, who likes to use small means, always has no good result.
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When you grow up, you will see many temptations from outside. You should guard your heart and don't be fooled by them. You envy your neighbor's brother having a toy car, but you don't know that your brother envies you having your parents around. Don't always look at what others have, but think more about your own happiness and income. There are very few people who need your care, and there are limited things you need to worry about. As long as you take good care of these people and things, you will have a complete life.
In the later life, don't envy others, let alone compare with others. There is no second you in the world, and your existence is unique. You don't want to be the richest man in the world, as long as you can master a skill to support yourself and spend your life smoothly. Learn to look at the joys, sorrows, successes and failures in this world with a normal heart. Only by keeping your heart, can happiness always accompany you. There is nothing wrong with wanting to succeed, but a gentleman "takes the right way" and doesn't do anything against his conscience.
Baby, not as unforgettable as your own experience. Keep these suggestions in mind, maybe it will help you one day. I can't accompany you through life, nor can I teach you everything. Mom wants to accompany you with healthy body, clean heart and bright smile. May you still love the world and yourself after the ups and downs of life.