Case 1: Parents should take care of the child's temper. After all, the material conditions are good now, and the number of children is too small now, so many parents or family elders have given modern children wayward capital, so the probability of losing their temper now far exceeds other times.
So in life, if a baby likes to lose his temper or be self-centered, he doesn't care about other people's feelings, just wants to meet his inner needs, or likes to threaten others to satisfy his children. Then at this time, parents should immediately pull the alarm. If the child's cognitive view is not corrected in time, it will easily affect the establishment of his later three views.
So, what should be done specifically? You can wait until the child loses his temper or makes threats, giving him a space and time to vent. Parents should wait until their children really calm down before educating them. Tell them at this time that I didn't buy your temper. Because your behavior is unreasonable to me, or to others outside my family.
The second situation: the child is lazy. When you say that children are lazy, they have every reason to refute that adults are lazy now. Why do you ask such a young child of mine to be diligent?
In fact, laziness contains many things, such as: children are unwilling to do their own things or never willing to share some things for their parents. Such behavior is unwilling to work, so they will also be hindered when harvesting.
Therefore, parents should tell their children: properly cultivate their hands-on ability, and then when their children grow up, they can get some gains through their hands' labor, so that income and expenditure are directly proportional. If you just wait for someone to feed you with your mouth open, you will become a passive person one day.
The third situation is that you can't give others a sense of trust. In fact, there are many meanings about trust, such as disrespect for others, bad faith, and even no sense of time. If these small details happen frequently, it may affect others' impression of themselves. However, with the development of the times, it is common to need team strength, so if you want to gain a foothold in society, you should also cultivate a trustworthy image.
Therefore, parents should tell their children that they should know how to respect others and themselves, and at the same time, they should not have a big decline in trust in the behavior habits or details of a certain aspect of life.
The fourth situation: no sense of responsibility. No sense of responsibility also includes many things, such as: doing something wrong, but also like to blame others, or others are still looking for excuses to defend themselves when presenting evidence, and so on. Although these behaviors are common in life, they are not a big deal. However, if you are unwilling to correct it after a long time, it is likely to affect the deterioration of your child's quality in the future. Therefore, telling children what is responsibility and what is good quality is also a direction that parents should learn to guide.
Why do many people say that a child is a blank sheet of paper after birth, and parents are markers on that blank sheet of paper? It is precisely because of the exemplary role of parents' daily words and deeds, as well as the guidance parents usually give their children, which has a vital impact on their education.
Therefore, in the aspect of disciplining children, even if we don't respect the education method of tiger mother and cat father, we should discipline children from the right angle and never take it for granted.