What are the parents of junior high school students most concerned about?

Thank you for reminding me. Thank you, Teacher Hui, for starting to focus on junior high school students, because, in my opinion, this is a group that needs to be led more. Yesterday, after reading blogger Lu's blog "Wolf Howl", I shuddered-what do our growing children need most? As parents, teachers and members of society, what should we give them? Which aspect of their growth should we pay most attention to? When relatives and friends meet, they always say a few commonplaces: when children are older, they don't have to follow you all day, just take care of their food and clothing! Although I occasionally agree, I still don't quite agree with this view. The child is older than when he was a child. In fact, they need parents' ideological guidance to keep them healthy and positive, which should be my greatest concern for children. It is our parents' duty to let our children eat and wear warm clothes. It is our parents' responsibility to let our children grow up healthily. Which of our parents won't love and care for their children? However, in order for children to truly grow into an open-minded, optimistic and open-minded person, we need our parents to set an example and guide our hearts. Looking back carefully on the road my child has traveled this year, it can be said that it is relatively smooth. My children quickly adapted to junior high school life, found their own position, and their learning status was not bad, which also made me very pleased. In the meantime, in addition to exchanging some views on learning with each other at the dinner table, I also wrote to my children more than once to understand their real thoughts and give them help in time. I remember that in the first half of the semester when children just entered the threshold of junior high school, there was always a move to break away from their parents' bondage, and sometimes they expressed dissatisfaction with their parents' words and deeds. I know this is a sign that children want to grow up. So, I wrote a letter to my children, The Road to Maturity-For Adolescent Children. The child is sensible, and this letter quickly eliminates the gap between the child and the parents, and the relationship between the child and the parents returns to the intimacy of the past. Later, for a period of time, children encountered a "bottleneck" in the exam, because the first exam was the first in the class, and the second exam was always worried that they would lose, putting pressure on themselves and unable to maintain a normal heart. So, I wrote the second and third letters to my children, "You should do this in the face of the exam" and "Calm your mind, find the right way and move forward lightly". These two letters are addressed to Nianer and Cher respectively. The two children quickly stabilized their emotions, adjusted their mentality and faced the exam calmly. I believe that every letter from my mother has a great influence on my children, so they can grow up so happily. Adolescent children need more understanding and attention, not just eating and wearing warm clothes. When we give children a positive influence on the spiritual level, then children's problems such as fighting, rebellion, surfing the Internet and even puppy love will be difficult to find under the sincere care of parents. In addition, I also suggest that parents should pay more attention to their children's learning attitude than their children's academic performance. In my opinion, as long as a child is willing to work hard and is working hard to maintain a positive attitude towards life and learning, he is valuable! Excellent academic performance cannot be equated with excellent children. Because the standard for evaluating a child's Excellence is not just academic performance! If you want to ask me, what are the parents of junior high school students most concerned about? Let me tell you: it is the child's positive attitude and healthy growth of body and mind! Attached questionnaire: 1. Children's grade: grade one (grade one, grade two, grade three) 2. Child sex: male (female) 3. Your occupation: teacher 4. What aspects of your child do you care about most? (You can choose up to three items) A, DA. Relationship with teachers and classmates B. Physical health C. Academic performance D. Personality E Other: optimism, mental health 5. What's your biggest concern about children? (Choose at most three items) DA. Puppy love B. Decline in academic performance C. Tired of learning D. Sick E. Addicted to games F. Others: no team spirit, public welfare 6. Is there anything wrong with your child that makes you very worried and headache now? Have you tried to solve these problems? By what means? A: I'm worried that the child will be fine for the time being. If there is, I will talk to my children or exchange letters to persuade them, or cooperate with teachers to educate them, and I will never insult or satirize them. 7. What kind of educational news do you want to know? A: I hope to know more about the differences between Chinese and western education, so that my children can learn from each other and do better! 8. Do you know anything about adolescence (physical health knowledge and psychological changes)? B, you still need to study. A. I know B. I don't know much C. I don't know D. I don't want to know 9. Which subject are you most worried about? I don't need to worry about my children's grades. They are not biased, and they have always been good. A. Chinese B. Mathematics C. English D. Physics E. Chemistry F. Biology G. History H. Politics I. Sports 10. What difficulties do you usually have in tutoring children? A: I can rarely help my children, but I can still help them analyze Chinese problems. The difficulty is that my level is limited, and many math problems can only play an enlightening role. 1 1. What kind of help do you want the teacher to provide in your children's study and life? A: I most hope to get the teacher's guidance on the child's spiritual level. The child is in a transitional period of physical and mental development. Teachers' correct guidance can make children grow up healthily. 12. What's your relationship with children? AA。 Very close B. Generally C. Very nervous 13. What do you think is the biggest difficulty in communicating with children? A: There are no difficulties yet. Children are more reasonable. 14. Do you think reading is helpful for children? AA。 Yes, B. I don't know C. No 15. If an expert who specializes in reading carefully selects some books to promote children's learning and help them grow up, will you consider buying them? AA。 Yes, B. No, C. Read before you decide 16. If there is a family education multimedia message to help you solve various problems of middle school students, what do you want to see most? A: Help children to establish a correct outlook on life and world, normal interpersonal communication, guidance on learning methods and so on. Thank you.