First, parents should not interfere with their children's dreams. In this play, Joe always has an astronomical dream. She wants to study astronomy and take an examination of Nanjing University. But her mother is a teacher and has always wanted Eiko to stay in Beijing and take an examination of Tsinghua. Therefore, her mother is always very strict with her, and she is required to be the first in every exam, which puts a lot of pressure on Eiko. Eiko also tried to tell her mother that she wanted to go to Nanjing University. Even her father, who has always supported him, disapproved of her going to Nanjing University. She was very sad and unable to talk, so she chose to escape and suffered from depression. In fact, children are also independent individuals, and they also have dreams. As parents, all you can do is support them.
Second, parents should give their children space to think independently. Children are independent individuals. They know what they want and have plans for the future. As parents, we should leave some time for our children, so that they will be happy and learn quickly.
Third, parents' feelings should not be allowed to affect their children. After Joe's parents divorced, her mother always restricted her father from visiting Eiko, which made Eiko feel very uncomfortable. She dared not get too close to her father, for fear that her mother would be sad and that she would be caught in the middle. In fact, her parents' divorce has had a great impact on the children, and she should not be allowed to put pressure on the children and hurt their little hearts in the future.