People generally understand love as the affection between lovers in a narrow sense, but in fact, "love" is the existence in the broadest sense, including many aspects. Some people divide it into five categories: love for relatives, love for admirers, love for animals, love between friends and sex between partners. For today's young people, apart from feeling and petting like animals, they have some experience and understanding of the other four different types of love, especially when they are young, they are interested in the sexiness after the seeds of love.
First, love is a pure and noble emotion between partners based on emotion and instinctive desire. The formation of love is related to the nature of human beings as advanced animals-physiological impulse. Physical and mental contact and verbal provocation between partners can arouse considerable pleasure. The idealized development trend of everyone's love always ends in "integration" (body and spirit).
Second, although pure love has physiological and desire basis, it can never be equated with animal-like desire. On the contrary, it is a very noble and sacred emotion, and it is far higher than sexual desire and is in a condescending position. This spiritual and ideological thing is mainly the consistency of thoughts, hobbies and dreams. The reason why love is beautiful and moving is, in the final analysis, lust is not the most important thing, but because of the great richness of this spirit and consciousness. In love between men and women, the richer the content of spirit and consciousness, the higher the level and quality of love, and the more tenacious it will be. It is true that lust and spiritual consciousness are inseparable. If two people only have the same pursuit of ideology, interests and hobbies, but no lust and physical attraction, then they can only be regarded as like-minded good friends; If two people are only attracted by lust, but there is no consistency in ideology, hobbies and ideals, then the shelf life of their "love" will be very short.
Third, human beings are the only advanced animals with advanced wisdom in the world. At the same time, when God created mankind, he endowed mankind with all kinds of emotions and love, many of which are difficult to distinguish. Among them, similar love, such as praise, admiration, intoxication, gratitude and self-sacrifice, is different from these emotions, but inseparable. For lovers, if their love and these other basic human emotions are mutually exclusive, such as A unilaterally saying "I love you" to B, but on the other hand A doesn't respect or praise B at all, then they are by no means true love. Because there are no other beautiful feelings belonging to human beings, true love can't exist independently. A person who doesn't love relatives and parents, intimate friends and hometown won't have pure and lasting love between partners.
Fourth, love is noble and great because we love ourselves and share with others, and at the same time we can make sacrifices for the people we love. Meanwhile! Love is not a simple possession, but a silent dedication.
As the Russian philosopher Nikolai Gavrinovic Chernyshevski said, "What does it mean to love others? This means being full of joy in his (her) happiness, silently doing everything that needs to be done to make him (her) happier, and I will get more happiness from it. "
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