Although Baochai and Baochai have emotional entanglements, Jia Baoyu seems to vacillate between Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai, but what is certain is that Jia Baoyu only loves Lin Daiyu in his heart. In the eyes of many people in Jiafu, Lin Daiyu is a sickly beauty. Why does Jia Baoyu love Lin Daiyu, a sickly beauty, instead of Xue Baochai, who is beautiful?
1. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are spiritual soul mates.
What is the attraction between the opposite sex? Maybe it's looks, maybe it's personality, maybe it's temperament, maybe it's talent ... Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu fell in love at first sight, first of all because they had a predestination in their previous lives, and the two sides of Linghe River and Sanshengshi were the cradle of their love. Therefore, Jia Baoyu smiled at the first sight of Lin Daiyu.
I've seen this sister before.
Thanks to Jia's kindness, they slept in the same bed and ate at the same table. They were really childhood friends. This situation was maintained until Xue Baochai came to Jiafu. Why is there such a change? It is because of Xue Baochai's beauty and open-minded behavior that Lin Daiyu is inferior! The suspicion, dispute and game between Baochai and Baochai have gradually become the main theme.
Although Jia Baoyu also likes Xue Baochai, Lin Daiyu is the only one he loves in his heart. Lin Daiyu's poems are the best in Jia Baoyu's eyes. In the poetry competition, Jia Baoyu once had a little argument with Li Wan because she ranked Xue Baochai's poems first, because Jia Baoyu thought Lin Daiyu's poems were better. Lin Daiyu has the best eloquence in Jia Baoyu's eyes. When Grandmother Jia praised Xifeng in front of everyone, Jia Baoyu specially asked the old lady to praise Daiyu by the way.
Because of true love, I feel that everything in the other person is the best; Because love is too deep, there will be heart abuse, jealousy, contradiction and friction. The so-called love is deep and hate is cut. When Baodai and Daiyu misunderstood each other, one cried in the wind in Xiaoxiang Pavilion, and the other looked at the moon in Justin, living in both places, wholeheartedly! There is a song that says: flowers drift away, one kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure. This is a true portrayal of Baodai's love. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are proper soul mates!
2. Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai have different views and can't blend.
Readers familiar with A Dream of Red Mansions know that Xue Baochai has the virtue of "stopping work" and her ideal partner should be ambitious. For example, Jia Yuanchun, Jia Baoyu's younger sister, is married to the king of a country, and has a wealth of flowers and plants, and has the potential of cooking oil with fire. Unfortunately, Xue Baochai failed in the list, and her ideal of life could not be realized after all.
So, settling for the second best, Xue Baochai imposed her life ideal on Jia Baoyu. She wants to make Jia Baoyu famous. She wants Jia Baoyu to have a successful career. She wants Jia Baoyu to revitalize her family. She wants to rely on Jia Baoyu to save the Xue family. She also wants to rely on Jia Baoyu to reach the highest level of life ... In fact, Xue Baochai thinks so, which is understandable. After all, Jia Baoyu is a curse and a devil.
The mistake is that Jia Baoyu hates literati most, calling Jia Yucun and other men who pursue fame and fortune traitors. Whenever Xue Baochai coaxed Jia Baoyu to say that you should study hard and make progress every day, Jia Baoyu was annoyed. He said impatiently to Xue Baochai, how can a good girl fall into the position of chasing fame and fortune? He felt sorry for Xue Baochai. This is because their outlook on life, values and world outlook are completely different.
Shi Xiangyun and xiren are Xue Baochai's "little daughters". If they have something to do, they should learn from Xue Baochai and persuade Jia Baoyu to learn the knowledge of official career economy. Jia Baoyu is very annoyed. He said:
Sister Lin never said these fucking words? If she had said such nonsense, I would have separated from her.
All these show that Lin Daiyu is Jia Baoyu's only confidant, while Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu are not the same kind of people at all, and they can't be integrated after all.
3. Lin Daiyu's wandering, weakness and crying all her life are more likely to arouse Jia Baoyu's desire for protection.
Lin Daiyu is an unlucky woman in Jia Baoyu's mind. She lost her parents when she was a child and lived in Jia's house. Although she has no worries about food and clothing, her mental pain and suffering may only be felt by Jia Baoyu.
When Dai Yu buried the flowers, she cried and said, "The flowers are flying all over the sky, and the fragrance disappears. Who has pity ... there is no sad song for me, and I don't know whether the flowers have fallen or died." Jia Baoyu collapsed, thinking that Lin Daiyu was extremely beautiful and heartbroken ... At this point, the spiritual realm of the two had a high degree of * * *.
Jia Baoyu is most afraid of Lin Daiyu crying, and sometimes he will cry with her. When they can't speak, there are more silent complaints than vocal complaints, their feelings have been deepened and their thoughts have been sublimated. Lin Daiyu's tears undoubtedly aroused Jia Baoyu's subconscious desire to protect her.
Looking at Daiyu's tearful departure, Jia Baoyu was heartbroken and couldn't help but send an affectionate declaration to Lin Daiyu:
Good sister, I never dare to say so. Today I dare say that I am willing to die. I'm sick for you, but I dare not tell anyone, so I have to stay by your side until you get better. I'm afraid I'm cured! I can't forget you in my sleep!
To sum up: although Lin Daiyu is a beauty, Jia Baoyu has already loved her to the point of madness; As for Xue Baochai, although she is beautiful, they can't achieve ideological consistency and spiritual harmony, so Jia Baoyu won't fall in love with Xue Baochai.