Self-help and Growth —— Psychological Health Education for College Students

The road to growth is bumpy and smooth. The rough road requires you to work hard on many things, and the smooth road will give you some help. The road to growth is monotonous and colorful. The monotonous road spends most of its time studying, while the colorful road still has time to finish its own things. The road to growth is boring and interesting. Doing a lot of things you don't want to do is boring, and it's fun when your parents are away. It was my mother who taught me to walk and let me have fun with my feet; It was my mother who taught me to speak, so that I could express my thoughts better. It was my mother who taught me to read and let me discover the history of words; It was my mother who taught me to read and let me discover the long and interesting history of China. The second morning star is my first teacher, who brought me into the ocean of knowledge and made me understand the fun of learning. Bring me into the river of books and let me understand that reading is an interesting thing; Brought me into the stream of classmates, and I gained pure friendship. I will inevitably stumble on the road of growth. I remember once, I took part in an essay contest with confidence. I thought it must be the first prize, but I didn't expect to get an excellent certificate because of my own efforts. I am very disappointed, but failure is the mother of success. In order to fight for this tone, I studied hard, often took part in essay-writing classes, actively signed up for essay-writing competitions, and finally I was shortlisted. Although we don't know the result yet, let's work hard together on the road of growth. I grew up reading, writing good books, reading good books and reading good books. In the ice, I realized more and more deeply: who can support my life except my parents' affection? It is a book and an important spiritual pillar of life. The first time I met a book was after reading a good book. I am over six years old. For a family that practices early education, it has really delayed a lot of time, but it does not affect my feelings with books. When I first saw this book, I was first attracted by its beautiful cover. I touched the cover. It was exquisite and sizzling. I will focus on the content, ah, there is another world, chess and calligraphy, truth, goodness, beauty, falsehood, ugliness and ugliness are all her essence, and her true meaning is here! She standardized my behavior and baptized my soul. This is a "good book". It was probably when I was eleven or twelve years old that I realized that I had to really decompose the nutrition of a good book. "Good reading" is an indispensable digestive juice. "Reading a book a hundred times, you can see its meaning" is a kind of enjoyment and fun. I was holding Camel Xiangzi in my hand in the morning. Holding the complete works of Lu Xun, it seems to be talking to Mr. Lu Xun; At night, I seem to see Paul's firm back in the light, explaining the meaning of life to me. Good book, my "idol" and my "heart", I love reading her, and I don't need to ask why. Reading good books is my friend-this is what I realized in junior high school. She really benefited me a lot. This "benefit" not only refers to excellent grades, broad horizons and. I grew up with reading, and laughter and sadness were her companions along the way. I love reading, and I will always … grow up happily. Growing pains are like a boat in my life, sailing in the waves. Sometimes it is calm, and sometimes it will encounter surging waves. But my growth boat was not smooth sailing, and it also experienced various storms. For me, everything is bittersweet. I am becoming an adult, so in the eyes of my parents, I am no longer a child, but become conscious, courageous and knowledgeable. Sometimes, they will say, "You've grown up!" You're not a child anymore! It gives me a headache. No matter what I do now, I must first recognize the compass and have principles. I can't do it carelessly or treat it carelessly. If I make a mistake, I will encounter a snowstorm at any time. Looking back on my childhood, my life was so relaxed, carefree and free, with no worries around me. But as the years passed, the waves ahead became bigger. I have become a primary school student, and the old me is gone. I am tall, I have been in school for a long time, I have more homework, I have more subjects to study, my schoolbag on my shoulder is heavier, and the pressure in my heart is getting bigger and bigger. If I were a child, no matter what I did wrong, no one would blame me, plus my parents would be my "guides". But now I'm grown up and sensible. Look before you leap. Compared with the carefree days when I was a child, this gradually widened the distance. Although I was a child, I would have a comfortable life, but I was bound by my elders and others everywhere, and I was mixed by my parents when I walked. I collapsed with the support of my parents. But I know that when I grow up, I will become an adult, which is different from when I was a child. Just like I am now, I am growing up and have my own opinions on everything. How can I succeed in my growing boat? Although unstable, calm and choppy, it is also various. I exercised a lot. Through my growing process, I really realized that growing up has some troubles, but more is happiness. Growing pains I once imagined my life as a mysterious and illusory ocean. I have always thought that the best part of my blue and fresh sea of life is friendship. I will always believe that friends will be my closest confidants in my life. Oh, my god I will always thank God! In this way, I arranged two close and lovely friends around me. When I entered this class, I didn't have any friends at first, and I didn't know any friends. Like the last leaf on a dead tree in autumn, I am alone, letting the rustling wind blow me and the cool rain fall on me. At that time, I had no friends, no wind to move me, no rain to fall. A lovely wind and a funny rain broke into the inner world of the poor "leaf" In this way, the wind and rain played with this leaf, and the three of us became inseparable friends. From then on, the story of the three of us began ... we talked about everything and never quarreled. "Wind" is a natural and unpretentious free and easy wind; "Rain" is a shower that makes us blush and make us happy. We study and play together in the classroom. Even after school, we should stay together, laugh together, cry together, and be depressed together ... The school has exams every month and has always been a handy leaf, not afraid of English exams. "As it happens, this test question has been detoured, and the result must be very clear and careless. Crying ... she didn't pass the next 80 points, so she hated herself. She is always careless in exams. There is a letter missing here and a word missing there. " What's the matter with you? Get up! Ah! Get up! Did someone bully you? "'Leaf' shook his head desperately." Did you do badly in the exam? ""assists "shook his head hard. She is a person who doesn't want to reveal her heart. She swallowed all the bitter water in her stomach and wrote it in her diary. She often stayed at home alone and looked up at the sky. However, her friendship was destroyed at this moment. Assists, accompany me to buy lollipops! ""Oh, I have a cold and don't want to go! " "good! Come with me if you like. " "Come on! Go by yourself! " "Wind, come with me! I really want to eat sugar! " "Ha ha! Go by yourself! I have work to do! " "You go with me! "..." Hum! ...... "Rain" sat in the chair angrily. "Hey? What are you doing? I have lollipops! Who wants it? " "Hurry up and show it to me! Why don't you go? ! ""Hum, you eat lollipops! Don't buy mine? I quickly explained, "The wind bought this for me." She still didn't speak. I quickly apologized and said, "Okay, I'm sorry, okay?" "You are so boring!" "Rain" said. When I was angry, I ignored her and sat in the front row talking to others. "Rain" followed closely. She bought a lollipop by herself and sat there alone when she came back. I didn't take the initiative to talk to her because I was talking to my classmates, but Feng went. Because I thought at that time that our friendship would not be ruined by a lollipop. This indicates that we will have a cold war. I took the initiative to chat with her. She ignored me, so she ignored her again. I really don't know, we have a lot to say on weekdays, and I don't know how we spent these three days ... I tried to make her happy, but she just ignored me. "Oh, come on, don't ignore anyone again, ok! "Rain is also angry. I'm a rat suffering from anger at both ends. That's terrible! ""Feng "said anxiously. That afternoon, we seemed to make up, as if we could not get through. Let's go home together. I'll keep watch on the left and she'll keep watch on the right. As far as their conversation is concerned, I didn't say a word. The next day, we finally opened our dusty mouths and said something that made me very happy and sad. On the third day, she has taken the initiative to stay. We will also smile at each other. Whenever my friendship is hurt, I will be sad and cry again on a cold night ... My mother also taught me, "Every time you come back, for the sake of friendship, there is only sadness and crying. You should take the initiative to enhance your feelings with her! " I don't know whether to be sad or happy after reconciliation ... I hope my answer will help you ~!