When the natural birth, old age, sickness and death come, some people let nature take its course, because there is nothing they can do to help, and there is nothing they can do to help the flowers fall into the water.
When the unnatural old age and death from heaven, some people mourn its misfortune, grief.
When the double life and death, some people complained about the injustice of God, and resisted indignantly.
It can be seen that death itself is only the fall of leaves in the autumn wind and the darkness of the sky, and people are powerless to retain it and cannot escape from it. It is only because of the many different causes of death that people have different views on it.
It is only when wars, epidemics, drugs, accidents, disasters, and so on take away the lives of countless people that people rise up in indignation and resist.
It is the attitude towards death that is the most frightening. When faced with a life and death situation, the fear of death is inherent in all people, and it is the fear of death that is the most frightening. Many people in the suspicion of a serious illness, can not tenaciously suppress the fear, terrified, this is the real terrible, some people are scared to death by fear.
In the history of war, some of the weak-willed prisoners of war by the fake shooting will be paralyzed to the ground, because the people were invisible fear of the blade of the live chopped down. And strong-willed people both make the knife on the neck also face does not change color heart does not jump, because early cast away the fear of death. Seventeen-year-old Liu Hulan in the guillotine blade of righteousness, interpretation of the "great life, death is glorious!
In front of death, the ancient "Hongmen Banquet" is a textbook. Liu Bang knew that it was dangerous to go to Tiger Mountain, but he went to Tiger Mountain. The first time I saw this was when I was a kid, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid in my life. Liu Bang is not afraid of death, there is no danger to worry about.
Liu Bang went to the banquet, Xiang Yu's heart was softened, Liu Bang was not killed, and later on, he was bound to have a great blessing. If, for example, he is scared to death by fear, Liu Bang will accomplish nothing.
Life is precious, love is more expensive. If you want to be free, you can throw them both away.
If you have a correct view of life, and are not suppressed by fear, then your life will be more resilient and long-lasting!
Is it possible that people are not afraid of death? There is a famous robbery and murder case of Yang Tianyong in Kunming. Legend has it that when they killed the hijacked men, many of them were scared out of their pants, while few of them were killed when they killed the women. But are women really not afraid of death? Look at those old tits old one by one eating fasting and reciting Buddha's name, do you really mean just for the sake of the peace of your family? Not really. Some people say that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and children are quite brave, but can you tell children about death? I guarantee that if you tell your child about death, he will be left with a psychological shadow.
According to a friend, those who have been sentenced to death and are waiting to be executed, some of them can't even walk, some of them have deformed faces, and their bodies have sudden illnesses. But some of them are just as silly and happy as they are not. I've seen the kind of woman who took rat poison by suicide, carried to the hospital on her back, foaming at the mouth while humming, "Help me. I've been there too. When I was a kid, I watched others swim in a deep pool and thought it was easy, so I took off my shirt and pants and jumped in. As a result, the water fluttered and struggled for a while to fall, a while in the surface of the water to show a half-head, at that moment I thought it was really over, but fortunately there were people next to me, a few partners came over to pull me upward. As soon as they touched me, I called that a death grip on their necks will not let go, the desire to survive is quite strong. Later, I practiced my swimming skills, and now I am a direct swimmer. But that's it, because of that childhood shadow, let me swim wild swimming in the river bank or a little scared.
People really afraid of death? I've seen a watching a gang of liars set up guessing melon gambling stall, talkative was cut several times dying people, hands are broken off to the side, but also in the comfort of a side of the weeping girlfriend. Also heard a friend say, someone in prison suicide, and afraid of alarming cellmates for the merit of the rescue, so the use of sharpened small blade quietly cut open the stomach, pull out the intestines cut off a few sections. He was still alive, so he put a strip of cloth around his neck and strangled himself with chopsticks. How determined that suicide must be! There are also those who have been sick for a long time and have been tortured enough by their illnesses, and slowly they are not afraid of death. Those who went to war, do you think it is useful to be afraid of death? After the sound of gunfire, they gradually became numb. Especially when you see the people around you fall one by one, full of anger, has long put life and death outside the belly. There have been on the battlefield back to say, if you hear someone get a shot howling, this person is most likely to be saved. If you hear a soft hum, cursed a motherfucker, it is likely to be hopeless.
The two ends of the human life is most afraid of death, children and teenagers on the one hand bold, on the one hand, can not hear people talk about the death of this matter. When you grow up, encountered a variety of bad things, a variety of changes, by life storm, tortured enough, this time but not too afraid of death. Waiting for the old, death has really become a near value, and then began to fear death. You see so many specialized cheat the elderly to buy health care fraud gangs, why they can repeatedly succeed, in addition to the elderly slow reaction, there is an important reason is that the elderly have life anxiety.
If you ask me, are you afraid of dying? I myself sometimes quite afraid, on the street to see the construction of the fence I have to look up and observe the fast past. Sometimes and not afraid, I often fantasize, if one day the war, let me charge into battle, I will still go, and to personally slaughter a few enemies. I have had psychic experiences before, so I want to tell you not to be too afraid, the soul may really exist, only that is also science, unknown science only.
The emperor does not call me, focusing on historical and current commentary
For example, a person who wants to jump off a building, think of jumping down after the tendons broken bone broken miserable, but he still want to jump, indicating that the fear of death has been far less than the fear of life; and those who have long for the disease torture of the terminally ill, can not wait to say death, they have been worse than death.
It can be seen that death is not scary, death is just a ceremony for the end of life.
For death, older people are less afraid than young people, and more open to the topic of "go". In the past, when people were old, they would prepare coffins in advance, and "see things" every day, and the mood was calm and unperturbed. If it is a young man, early alarm for the "murder house"!
Death is everyone has to face, when people are old (put aside now, or in the eighty outside the bar), the more flowery eyes, the end of life to see more clearly, they will not have the luxury of life and death from the Palace of Hades "desertion", relative to the death of their more concerned about the old age of the pre-mortem.
Teenagers, the newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, they are not afraid of tigers, more fear of death. To death, they are indifferent. Year after year in the summer, how many teenagers died because of rash risk-taking. Dead, also dead, the flower of life has not blossomed and failed, their parents do not have enough time for him to mourn - "have to take advantage of the young, and then another one"!
By the time they were young, they had not yet started their careers, and they had not yet tasted the sweetness and bitterness of many things, but they thought they had seen all the flowers of Chang'an, and had penetrated the scenery of life, and they were going to give up their lives for the sake of trivial matters. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
There are also a few unfortunate young people, the flower just bloomed, was destroyed by the god of fate in the hospital bed. The first time I saw this was when I was a kid, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid.
We all laughed and said he crow's mouth. I did not expect, "crow's mouth" actually said true. The girl later went to the hospital to check, it was found to have a terminal illness (what disease I forget), and indeed a few months later died. When she was critically ill, I visited her in the hospital. She lived in a single room, the light in the room was very dark, she was covered with a quilt, surrounded by a thick tent, and there was some medical equipment placed beside the bed. She didn't have a boyfriend at that time, and only her parents were with her. Just as the doctor came in to examine, I heard her say, "Doctor, you save me!" The voice of the miserable despair, I still remember today, as well as the dark ward and the depressing atmosphere in the ward.
After the girl died, I did not attend her memorial service, I heard that in the farewell ceremony, has died, she wore a wedding dress, parents cried to death.
The young man, only the invincible disease can make him understand how much they look forward to life, and when there is no disease, but no fear of death.
I also went to the prison to interview a death row inmate, a tall man in his late thirties. When he was brought up from the number, he was dressed in a gray and blue vertically striped prison uniform, with his hands and feet in shackles, and he took one step at a time. What remains in my memory now is the figure of him walking slowly out of the shadows of the building, and the unusually humble manner in which he was interviewed. I couldn't help but sympathize with him at the time, knowing that the way he looked was a sign of remorse for his crime and the luxury of life.
I think that when people are faced with the sudden end of their destiny, they are not afraid of death, but look forward to life.
In the blink of an eye, people to middle age, many people have been living numb, have more sense of life, life may not have more attachment. The reason is that life is too hard! However, middle-aged people are particularly afraid of death.
This is the middle-aged people relative to the youth of the "calm", he knew that every step he took, will involve many loved ones, the old and the young, is not a death can be exempted from its responsibility!
If you are a middle-aged man, when you think seriously about the topic of death, your first thought is certainly not the fear of death, but worry, "If I go, he (she) how to do"? The fear of death is to be found here!
The responsibility of life is tested by death.
When a teenager dies, he is immediately replaced by a new life. Young people die, leaving parents a long sorrow, and can be simmered; his spouse, "while young", there is also a way out. The first thing I want to say is that I'm not going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it. The first thing I want to do is to get rid of all the stuff that I've been doing.
The only middle-aged people died, the top pillar fell, the premises are facing collapse, the living more miserable.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, they are most afraid of death. Instead of saying that he is afraid of dying, he is afraid of dying too early and leaving his family without a place to live. He can't let go, he can't rest assured, and he's not willing to!
As for how to die, was "boom" off, car crash, water drowning, or die of disease, as well as after the death of the zombie is burned by the fire or gnawed on by the bugs, he had no time to care.
So, among the suicides, the middle-aged people who lived half of their lives were the least.
Successfully survived the middle age, to the old age, parents more than sent to the end, the children married, grandchildren also have, at the same time, sore back and legs, three high, diabetes, urinary weakness, and other kinds of problems also come to the door, eating is not good, the desire to weaken, daughter-in-law and husband has become an "old companion", full of folds! ...... live or not live, just like that! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need.
This is life, there is no special plot and story line, as long as the body does not shoot (self-timer) a tragedy, can be said to be enough !
Don't think too much, death is not so terrible, think too much, become afraid of death. That is self-seeking trouble, not as much as everything from the expectation of fate to face frankly. (The emperor does not call me to answer the question)