First of all, counselor interviews, like other job interviews, value comprehensive strength, not deliberate performance. Confidence is believing in yourself. I don't know if you have seen Kung Fu Panda. What is the last "Secretary of the Dragon"? It is a blank sheet of paper that can reflect itself. That's the truth. The best thing is yourself. Of course, before you are blind and arrogant, you should see clearly the advantages and disadvantages of your existence. As a counselor, whether your professional background is related to the post you are about to embark on, whether your students' work experience is sufficient, how to have a good junior class, how to guide students to adapt to strange university life, how to be strict but not alienate students, and the advantages and disadvantages brought to you by young people are all issues we should think about before. Only by finding the answer in advance can our interview and written test be full of rationality and thinking, and be recognized by the examiner. I hope you can do better in these basics!
1. How do you do a good job as a counselor?
Suppose your student is drunk and wants to hit you, what should I do?
3. How to solve students' learning difficulties?
4. The position and role of counselor work in political education.
5. How will you make use of party member and student cadres in your work?
6. How to deal with student emergencies?
7 About dormitory construction
How to do well the ideological work of students who come back all night
You organize a party and talk about the specific steps.
10 how to strengthen the work of student cadres
1 1 Why do you want to apply for a counselor?
12 how do you think you can be a good counselor?
Answer: Have three hearts-love, patience and care.
13. What would you do if a classmate kept complaining to his classmates about the unreasonable system of evaluating scholarships and grants, and his behavior seemed to attract the attention of many teachers and classmates? Interpersonal maturity
14. What have you done to improve your ability in the past two years? ego development
15. Many freshmen have entered the university, and their study and life in the new environment are not suitable. Some of them feel anxious and depressed, and some even want to drop out of school and commit suicide. As a counselor, what would you do in this situation? Psychological counseling skills
Learn professional psychological counseling knowledge and skills. Conduct systematic professional training.
When strengthening the role consciousness of psychological counselors, counselors should:
1, know and understand students from a psychological point of view.
Influenced by the traditional educational concept, many counselors are used to understanding students from the aspects of moral quality and organizational discipline, and rarely analyze and understand students from the perspective of psychology. For example, the behavior of students lying and cheating in exams is generally considered by counselors to be students' bad moral character and dishonesty; Few people realize that this is a self-protection measure taken by students who are psychologically afraid of punishment and escape from pain. For another example, the counselor encouraged a student with excellent academic performance to participate in the monitor election, but the student said that he did not want to be the monitor. Most counselors will think that this student is complacent and unwilling to serve everyone. I seldom thought that he might lack self-confidence in this respect, fearing that his self-esteem would be hurt if he was not elected, so he showed that he didn't want to be a monitor. Counselors know students from different angles, adopt different educational methods and have different educational effects. Strengthening the role consciousness of psychological counselors requires them to know and understand students from the perspective of psychology, find out the real reasons behind students' behavior, guide students correctly, make counselors' work more rational and scientific, and then improve work efficiency.
2. Look at students from a developmental perspective.
There is a very important point in psychology that a person has great development potential. James, an American psychologist, believes that ordinary people have only developed one-tenth of his potential, and even a great scientist like Einstein has not played more than 20% of his potential. Strengthening the role consciousness of psychological counselors is to see the development potential of students and take measures to promote better students; For students with poor development, we should realize that most students are only temporarily poor, they still have a positive side and great development potential, and we should actively take measures to tap their potential. In addition, college counselors strengthen the role consciousness of psychological counselors and treat students with a positive development concept, which will enhance their self-confidence, increase their sense of self-worth and do their work better.
3. Educate students through psychological counseling.
Nowadays, most college students show particularly strong personality characteristics, and it is difficult to carry out the work of counselors. In addition, students' problems are no longer just ideological and moral problems, but more psychological quality problems. Therefore, counselors only face students as educators and educate students through ideological work, and the educational effect will not be ideal. Strengthening the role consciousness of psychological counselors requires counselors to face students more as psychological counselors, and psychological counseling is also the main method in educational methods. Psychological counseling is a method to solve students' psychological and behavioral problems and promote students' growth by using the principles of psychology and psychological counseling according to their psychological characteristics. Psychological counseling is a professional psychological means for students' psychological development, which is scientific. So the effect is very obvious. For example, for students with strong subjective or egocentric consciousness, it is of little use to just give them reasons, demands, or rewards and punishments and ask them to accept some opinions and change some behaviors. However, combined with psychological counseling, through role-playing or participating in practical activities to enhance the experience, it will receive ideal results. For example, for students who are inattentive in class and like to talk, which affects classroom discipline, it is also important for counselors to strengthen concentration training from psychological counseling in addition to finding other reasons and taking corresponding measures. For students who are addicted to playing games and surfing the internet, counselors can't just talk about strong relationships. They must start with behavior and adopt behavioral therapy in psychological counseling, such as aversion therapy and token method, in order to receive good results. In order to strengthen psychological counseling, counselors should also attach importance to students' psychological development counseling, such as the guidance of memory methods, the training of thinking ability and willpower. In short, the characteristics and development of modern students require counselors to attach importance to the flexible use of psychological counseling methods in their work to ensure effective results. 4. Respect students and get along with them as equals.
The prestige of counselors and the relationship with students are the basis of doing a good job of counselors. According to the characteristics of students' enhanced subjective consciousness, counselors are required to respect students, get along with students on an equal footing and establish a harmonious relationship between teachers and students. At the same time, this is also the requirement of quality education. Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena. By studying people's psychology, we can deepen our understanding of people and better understand and accept their individual differences. Therefore, psychology attaches great importance to humanistic care, especially psychological consultation and consultation, which is a respect for people. In real life, people also have this experience. People who study psychology and psychology can understand and respect people better than ordinary people, and it is easier to establish good interpersonal relationships with people. Strengthening counselors' psychological counseling ability is to deepen their understanding of people and students through a series of psychological knowledge learning. On the basis of understanding, we should understand and respect students, put down the shelf of educators, get along with students on an equal footing, and establish a mutual respect and harmonious relationship between teachers and students, so as to lay a good foundation for doing a good job as counselors.
5. Pay attention to students' mental health.
With the improvement of people's living standards, people began to pursue high-quality life, from the past only concerned about physical health to mental health. Many mental health counselors emphasize the influence of early experiences on people's mental health. Therefore, educators should especially strengthen students' mental health work. The emphasis on students' mental health education reflects this requirement. In reality, China students' personality weaknesses such as self-centeredness and weak will can easily lead to mental health problems. At present, according to the survey of students in several universities in Xi, about 27% of them have psychological and behavioral problems. Therefore, we must attach importance to students' mental health and strengthen their mental health education. Because counselors are in frequent contact with students, they can grasp their psychological symptoms, find their psychological problems in time and prevent delays. Counselors have a strong influence on students' power. Therefore, it plays a very important role in students' mental health education. To strengthen the ability of psychological counseling, counselors need to solve students' psychological problems by psychological counseling to avoid psychological harm caused by improper educational methods. In addition to consciously maintaining students' mental health, counselors should also consciously improve students' self-protection awareness, strengthen mental health guidance and improve students' mental health level.
Therefore, we require college student counselors to read more books, listen to relevant special reports and have more contact with students. Through the combination of theory and practice, we can improve our work level, and finally optimize the psychological quality of college students, improve their mental health level, prevent mental illness, promote personality maturity and all-round development, and become college students' mental health doctors.
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