The importance of table manners 1
Parents should pay attention to table manners because everyone likes polite children, and people usually play with those polite children. Polite children are more popular with their parents.
Giving children a good table manners is actually an understanding of social etiquette, and it is also a manifestation of respecting others and letting children understand the value of etiquette.
Good table manners are actually paving the way for children to form better etiquette norms, which is very helpful to children.
Mature behavior can make children loved by everyone and help them develop other skills.
Etiquette is not formed overnight, but through the teaching of parents, so parents must pay attention to it.
It is necessary to constantly remind and strengthen children to learn the necessary etiquette, and then this behavior can become the second nature of children.
How to teach children table manners II
Correct table manners should be educated and trained in stages according to the baby's age. The first step is to teach children to use simple phrases, such as? Please. And then what? Thank you? Let children understand that if they want other people's things, they need manners.
When the child is three years old, parents should slowly teach the child to use various tableware in daily life.
Children's imitation ability is very strong, so parents must use correct manners to let their children learn table manners well.
Teach children how to use tableware and give them the opportunity to exercise. If there are any problems in the use process, you should inform your child and help him to correct them. If children behave well, they should be praised and rewarded, so as to better cultivate their manners.
Reasonable suggestions on table manners 3
1, eat at the table, don't eat in the bedroom, and don't watch TV.
If you can't get the seasoning you need, ask your children for help. When he (she) brings it to you, you must say thank you to the child, so that the child will learn manners in the future.
Be sure to sit up straight when eating, and don't slouch on the table.
If you want to sneeze or cough, turn your face away and cover your mouth with a napkin. Tell everyone after sneezing? Excuse me. .
5. Teach children how to clear the table and clear the tableware after eating. Remember to praise your child if he behaves well.
The importance of table manners
1. Have dinner together.
The more opportunities children have to eat with their parents, the more they can learn proper manners.
2. Don't ask for speed.
Teach one or two rituals in a planned way at the same time.
3. The goal is reasonable.
Every child is an independent individual. Parents should try their best to understand their children's abilities. What works for one child may not work for other children at all. Pay attention to the age difference.
4. Be flexible.
If there is anything wrong with your child, relax and put it off until the next day.
5. Lively and interesting.
Children are imaginative and like to play roles in life. Sometimes it is better to arrange exquisite meals for them, invite them to dress up for dinner, and teach them to behave in a way commensurate with their roles.
6. Practice regularly.
Parents take their children to restaurants to familiarize them with the manners they usually learn in public.
7. Positive teaching.
Children are easily disgusted with what they are forbidden to do.
It is better to tell them what to do in advance than to criticize them after they have done something wrong.
8. Make good use of opportunities.
On holidays, seize the opportunity to teach children the principles of dress, catering and coping.
9. Explain why.
At any time, try to explain the reasons for observing etiquette to children, which will help to cultivate children's awareness.
10.
Teach children to learn from children who do well, and also educate them with videos, books and pictures.
Etiquette to pay attention to at the table
1. When girls sit in chairs, their knees must be tight and their feet should be parallel, and they can only sit in one third of the chairs.
Don't stretch your legs! Ugly! Don't cross your legs on formal occasions!
2. When visiting other people's homes, don't sit around until the host arranges your seat.
Don't wander around other people's homes. Stay in the living room until the host invites you to another room.
If you want to go to the toilet, ask the host first.
3. clink glasses with others on the wine table. No matter who the other person is, your cup must be lower than the other person's cup to show respect. If the other person is an elder or leader, you should pay more attention.
4. Girls must bring an umbrella and a pack of tissues in their bags.
Girls' bags must be neat, take things out quickly, and don't rummage around in the bag in public.
5. Kneel down when picking up things or wearing shoes, and don't bend over and lick your ass.
6. Girls should not make any noise when eating anything.
Bite up noodles, drink soup with a spoon, and try not to eat pork ribs and trotters on formal occasions. It's really impolite for girls to bury their heads in chewing.
7, do things must be enough, whether it is eating their favorite food or losing their temper, girls know things. Degree? It is a rare good quality.
8. After eating at a friend's house, whether it is delicious or not, you should seriously praise the delicious food.
Don't move chopsticks before the host speaks. If there are elders or leaders on the table, wait for them to move chopsticks before eating.
Don't be the first person to move chopsticks at the cooking table except the elders.
Take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table after dinner. Even if the host won't let you help with the dishes, you can help clear the table and the stool.
Thanks to the host for cooking a table of rice.
No matter who you ask, please be sure to add it. Please. .
No matter whether others are willing to help or not, they should say so. Thank you? Express your gratitude.
10 Please keep your voice at a low frequency in a quiet place and don't laugh your whole mouth out.
Don't talk loudly and laugh loudly like a bitch in public.
1 1, the first sentence on the phone must be? Hello? When you hang up, wait for others to hang up first. (Note: My mother said that if you meet someone and wait for you, hang up first. If the other person is an elder or leader,
After the other party has finished speaking, the other party usually hangs up on his own initiative. If the other party doesn't hang up, he will politely say, Director X/Uncle X, thank you for your advice/for wasting your precious time. Goodbye.
Then after the other party responds goodbye, pause for 3 seconds and then hang up.
If the other party is a junior or peer, whoever calls will hang up. Before hanging up, both parties must say goodbye and wait for 3 seconds before hanging up.
For elders and leaders, please hold on first. There is usually no such thing as a leader waiting for you to hang up. Believe me, it's true.
12, be sure to wipe the table in your own direction.
13, take something sharp, and the sharp end must be pointed at yourself.
When handing something to someone, you must use both hands.
14, girls go out, don't lose your temper! Don't think that the waiter's service is not good, I should lose my temper and be unhappy. Don't think you are a princess, the whole world will follow you. You can bear it. Take a step back if you can.
15. When you meet a door that can be opened from the inside out, pull it instead of pushing it.
When eating out or being a guest, remember to close the door after the last one comes in.
16, when serving others rice or tea, if there is a person in the middle, don't pass in front of others, but bypass from behind.
17, it's impolite to eat at the same table with your elders. Don't play with your mobile phone.
In fact, no matter who you eat with, others are eating and talking, and you are playing with your mobile phone, it is very impolite.
18, the most important skill for girls is not to say a lot of meaningful words, but to listen carefully.
When listening to others, don't be distracted, try to look at the triangle on the other person's face (that is, the triangle where the eyes and nose are connected).
19, no matter where you eat, don't be picky on the plate! Especially rude! If you want to eat a good piece, take it away, and if you are not satisfied, eat it.
Don't put a bunch of things in your bowl just because I like it. Eat out as much as you can. Don't pile many things in the bowl. Drink as much soup as possible and don't pour it out.
When eating, as long as someone is talking, immediately put down chopsticks, stop chewing food and listen to others, even if it's none of your business, to show respect for each other.
20. Don't think that I am privileged because I am a woman. Girls are different from men in other aspects except gender. We must abide by the rules that they must abide by.
For example, I am a girl and need to spend more time dressing up before going out. You have to wait for me.
2 1. What is the mentality that girls need to change most? Sure, okay? You should bear in mind that anyone is kind to you, accommodating you and giving them greater returns.
There is nothing special about you. No one needs to treat you specially.
22. When someone is staring at you, don't look directly at the other person and pretend not to notice.
23. When someone is serving you, pouring water or handing something to you, don't just look. Hold it in your hand as a sign of courtesy.
No matter what happens, no matter what happens, always remember to smile
25. Don't rummage through things handed to you by others, whether it's your mobile phone, books or documents, unless someone tells you to continue.
Read whichever page you are told.
Have you ever encountered the kind of agitation in your heart when you show someone a photo of your mobile phone, and the other person turns it down regardless, so put yourself in the other person's shoes and don't be curious about what others won't let you move? )
26. The house should be tidy, or the guests will be embarrassed to see it when they come home.
27. To be a woman, you should learn to shut up. A woman who likes complaining too much will not have a happy marriage.
28. Learn to do housework. Even if you have enough money to please your aunt, you should learn to cook several special dishes, such as delicious soup, light porridge and hangover soup.
Learn to do some simple housework, such as ironing shirts, tidying closets, cleaning rooms, etc.
This will have a great impact on your relationship with your husband.
29, know how to be grateful, know that the grace of dripping water should be reported by the spring.
30. If you have an appointment with others, you must arrive 15 minutes earlier than the appointed time. I'd rather you wait for others than others.
3 1. Don't refute what your elders say that doesn't conform to your world outlook or is out of touch with the times. They are old, and whether this wrong view is corrected or not will not affect their later life. Just smile and respond.
32. Take someone else's car. Don't take the initiative to sit in the co-pilot seat until you are invited.
By the way, I didn't say it carefully enough: if the driver is the owner and the co-pilot is the superior, you don't sit until the other party invites you. If only the owner and you are in the same car, you take the initiative to sit in the co-pilot to show your respect.
If the driver of the car is a full-time driver and the driver leans back, that is, the position on the right side of the back row is the upper seat, don't take the initiative to sit there, and the co-pilot is the secretary seat.
If there are leaders and elders in the car, the position behind the driver is the upper position. Don't take the initiative to sit in that position.
Someone is in the same car as you. If the owner has no special arrangement, wait for someone else to get on the bus before getting on.
If there are elders or leaders, open the door for them.
33. Really understand and do it? Think of others? These five words, you don't need this pile of nonsense at all.