How to make children accept the tips of sleeping in separate beds and rooms without hurting them?

1. Starting from separate beds, there is no room.

Children who are used to sleeping in the same bed with their mothers will feel insecure and prone to fear if they sleep alone too soon. At the beginning, the mother can separate the bed from the room and let the children adapt and transition slowly.

Adults should not lock the door when children are separated. If conditions permit, the mother can open the door when sleeping, and let the child be in her sight, so as to observe the child's situation at any time. Even if you can't do this, don't lock the door when the mother is sleeping, so that the child can't come in at any time in the middle of the night and let the child sleep more at ease.

3. Put toys and bedding that children are familiar with on the bed.

Letting children sleep alone in the new room at once may make them feel strange and uneasy. Mothers can arrange their children's toys in the room and spread the bedding that children usually use. Being accompanied by familiar things can eliminate loneliness and help children fall asleep.

4. Go to the children's room to sleep and tell stories before going to bed. Before the mother goes to bed, it is best to accompany her in the children's room, telling stories, playing small games and whispering to the children, so that the children feel that even if they are separated, the mother is still the mother who loves them or the beloved child, which is more conducive to them accepting the fact that they sleep separately from their mothers.

Fixed sleep time

Usually fix the time for children to sleep, so that children can develop regular work and rest, and children are more likely to fall asleep. Remember to pee before going to bed to prevent children from waking up in the middle of the night and increase fear. Don't beat and scold children before going to bed, and don't let them watch too intense TV or games. Keep a calm mood, children sleep better.

6. Make a small agreement with your children.

For sleeping in separate rooms, mothers can make an agreement with their children in advance. For example, if the child is sick or sad, he can come back to sleep with his mother. He must abide by this rule at ordinary times. No foul is allowed without special circumstances. Otherwise, if the mother repeatedly fouls because she is soft-hearted, it will lead to more points and less points.