1, you must have a rich heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life. -Wang Shuo's letter to his daughter 2. In mature love, we fall in love with someone because we find ourselves reflected in him/her. In other words, we shine our souls on them and they make our souls "visible". -Joy Liu (Shuangyang) "What keeps you attractive is not mystery, but growth? I broke your heart and cut off your head. I found that I did the right thing. I learned to kill. I broke my heart and cut off my head. I did the right thing again. I was killed. 4. Now, life is getting better and better, but the happy psychology is becoming more and more fragile. Work and feelings always have pain points, which make people give up their efforts and give up on themselves. These setbacks sometimes come from reality and sometimes from imagination. " Psychological function "5. lynching is actually a protest against social injustice and incomplete system. Because laws and regulations can't give him the punishment he deserves, the people decide to use their own commandments to carry out the punishment. 6. Sometimes, too much love is also a kind of pressure! 7. Don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take yourself seriously. Everything is measured, and China culture is profound! I don't want to hear someone ask me: how do you know this? But you can say: What if you know? 9. The more you want to leave a place, the more you will do a good job in this last time. 10, cursing your son with your mouth is a retrogressive defense mechanism. Pleasure and satisfaction of desire return to my mouth. In this way, I linked with my son and abused my mouth. You can try to say something before scolding my son: I want to have a mouth addiction. After scolding my son, say one more thing: I'm addicted to my mouth. -Zeng Qifeng 1 1. Anxiety caused by social insecurity is essentially derived from interpersonal relationships, which are often not conducive to the formation of people's self-esteem. Contrary to anxiety, security is a confident and optimistic emotional state, which is conducive to the establishment of a sound personality. -Sullivan 12, the main purpose of psychotherapy is not to let patients enter an impossible state of happiness, but to help them establish a philosophical patience and firmness in the face of suffering. -jung 13. If you are the best of you, your sweetheart may not be tempted. The best pork belly hangs on the stall, but others like to eat dog meat. 14, some people say that he is not afraid of death, but he thinks that death is not worth it. In fact, most people who are afraid of death are afraid of death because they think it is not worth it. 15. What real psychology wants to tell you is that psychology will never tell you that this is right and that is wrong. It will only let you know yourself, accept yourself, and how you develop your potential and characteristics. Psychology respects the differences of every life and encourages everyone to explore their own potential and characteristics. 16. Everyone who manages his life well is transmitting positive energy to the universe. 17, "don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself" is more often just an excuse or tool for our lines or expressing our feelings. From a psychological point of view, "emotions, sorrows and fears" are the most primitive and basic emotions of human beings. Emotions are always so powerful that many times no one can make a decision. 18, the primitive psychological instinct seems to be a curse. When you don't know it, it will unconsciously control you, and once you expose it to the sun, its magic will be greatly weakened. 19, most men have a hidden fear in their hearts, fearing that they will be sucked back into the control of motherhood and cannot move. 20. A truly rational person must know how to solve difficult problems by emotional means. Note that it is not a solution, but a solution. Because he clearly knows that rational thinking has too many limitations, and people are spiritual animals and need to be influenced. 2 1, nothing is difficult in the world, nothing is impossible to a willing mind; There are joys and sorrows in life. 22. We are eager to grow up and create a void. We fill it with things that don't belong to me. We gradually think that the filler is the real self. Now they begin to occupy us in turn, and the true self is lost by us. When you use money, love, relationship, identity and self-esteem to replace the hole of growth, and then fill in the name of time, place and place, it constitutes all kinds of tragic stories in the world.