How to judge whether your marriage is healthy?

Is it normal to raise a lover in today's society? What percentage of people cheat on their partners? How many people can resist temptation and stay away from betrayal? Maybe different people have different answers. Indeed, couples' boring bedroom life will make their partners wander around and not necessarily cheat. But I think this couple broke their original vows, not only because of the boring sex life, but also because of some non-sexual factors. To judge whether a couple is loyal, please pay attention to the following five elements.

Take a negative attitude

Is it easy to get depressed? Some people are always depressed, mostly suffering from depression. It seems that all happiness is far away from them. Such people are easily isolated from others, all of which are caused by themselves. You will also make your partner feel lonely.

Every detail is clear.

Demands and anger are different. Anger only happens when your partner forgets what you told him. When you are too harsh, you will blame everything, clothing taste, TV programs, music and even ordinary friends. Therefore, stop all complaints and actively make up for the adverse effects.

egocentric

If you really want your other half to feel your love, then you should put the other side first and think of the other side everywhere.

explain

Maybe you don't realize it, but your partner has a feeling that you don't listen to him or her at all. You often say "I'm busy" and "can we talk later?" If so, you should always leave your partner an undisturbed time, even if it is the same old tune, you should listen patiently. Listening is the best gift of intimacy. Don't ignore its power.

Contactless

Almost everyone needs a hug and touch from others. If you only have physical intimacy during sex, then you are sending a signal that you no longer care about your partner. You will feel the lack of contact between you, and then your feelings will gradually drift apart.

Everything has a reason. If you have the above situation, you are providing the other party with the conditions to find satisfaction outside.