It is said that children are a mirror of parents, and what kind of parents will have children. We often think about how to educate children well, always look for answers from the outside world, and often ignore that the root of education is actually parents themselves. The road of parenting is actually the road of parents' self-growth. Therefore, in the process of accompanying children to grow up healthily, the first thing to do is to become a qualified parent. For myself, I will examine whether I have met the requirements of qualified parents from these aspects:
1, understand that accompanying children does not take a long time to look after them. It is to be able to interact and communicate effectively with children and experience the beauty and happiness of parent-child relationship in this process. This kind of effective interaction time, even if it is only ten minutes, is better than holding a mobile phone or watching TV for hours.
2. Know that children have different needs at each stage, understand the development process of children through books, online resources, courses and other learning methods and channels, and try your best to meet children in time. Don't be too spoiled or too strict with children.
3. Keep learning to improve yourself, broaden your horizons and improve your cognitive level. Self-growth can be achieved at a faster rate than children's growth. When children are in trouble and need help, we can give them correct guidance, teach them the ability to solve problems, give them a solid arm and let them look far away. 4. When you want your child to form a good habit, you should first do it yourself, and set a strong example for your child to learn from infection, instead of blindly asking him to let himself go.
5, keep exercising every day, let the children choose a favorite sport and stick to it. Good health is the foundation of everything.
6. Fill yourself with positive energy and give your child the correct guidance of "three views". Self-affirmation, and look at people and things around you with praise.
7. Be self-loving, self-respecting and confident. Be a warm person, care about people and things around you, and always have "empathy".
8. Love children, instill the awareness of self-protection in children in daily life, and have the ability to protect themselves. When one day children need to leave our arms, we can leave ourselves a "peace of mind".
Generally speaking, these aspects, of course, I still have many shortcomings, and I will gradually supplement what I need to learn and improve in order to become a more qualified and good mother.
Children will grow up and leave eventually. When they leave, we can rest assured that they have the ability to face their own life path, which means that we are qualified to be parents.
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