Psychological characteristics of adolescent students;
(1) has a strong sense of independence, a high desire for expression, likes to be unconventional, and always wants to express his unique opinions and make unusual moves to attract others' attention and show his independent personality.
(2) curiosity. Psychologists believe that when something is banned, it is easy to arouse people's curiosity and thirst for knowledge. Especially in the case of prohibition without any explanation, a strong sense of mystery is more likely to arouse people's speculation. Those film and television advertisements that are "not suitable for teenagers to watch" are to use teenagers' curiosity to attract more teenagers to watch.
(3) rebellious psychology. Once a person holds a negative attitude, he will also hold a negative attitude towards his views and actions. For example, teachers always criticize underachievers, and underachievers may not listen to their teachers and have rebellious mentality.
(4) extreme psychology. Adolescent students lack social experience and knowledge. They look at the problem too simply or even unilaterally, often attacking a little, not as good as the rest, but they are complacent about it.
The performance of students' rebellious psychology
1? Don't like to do what others say;
2. Considers that most regulations are unreasonable and should be abolished;
If his parents tell him the same thing over and over again, he will get bored;
4. Praise those students who oppose the teacher;
5. I think there are loopholes in adults' words, and adults' criticism often causes their disgust and anger;
6. Once you decide to do something, no matter how others discourage you, you won't change your mind;
7. The more he is not allowed to do it, the more he has to do it. If you tell him to go east, he must go west. Is that intentional? Make adults happy, don't let yourself listen to adults! I feel very independent!
Xi Milan psychological counseling tips:? Children's weariness of learning is only a superficial phenomenon. What parents need to do is not to force their children back to school by violence, or to let them go from now on, but to seek the help of professional psychological teachers as soon as possible to find out the root cause of their children's weariness of learning.
Psychological counseling is a sharp knife to open the gap between parents and children. Professional psychological counseling can help children and parents open their hearts, relieve emotional stress and fundamentally establish a good parent-child relationship. ?
In the process of psychological counseling, psychological counselors will use many professional methods to sort out problems and find the crux, so as to help children mediate their emotions, build confidence to stimulate their interest in learning, and teach children to learn skills and change? Good parenting methods and communication skills, adjusting family relations, improving family atmosphere, etc. The guidance of these professional methods can make children open their hearts, relieve stress and return to class as soon as possible. Parents will also establish a good relationship with their children after consultation, so that children are willing to communicate with their parents. ?
The time for psychological counseling is also as early as possible. Once you find that your child is tired of learning, you need to find a professional teacher to guide you in time. The shorter the time of being tired of learning, the lighter the children's resistance, the easier it is to open their hearts and go back to school, and the less time they will delay. On the contrary, some parents think that their children will get better after a while. However, the delay is very long. Negative emotions form conditioned reflex. The tighter the child's heart is, the harder it is to open it, and the more reluctant it is to go back to school. Learning time is irreversible, and it is a pity to miss the best opportunity for guidance.