Let children learn and do nothing. If children study well, will there really be a future?
As we all know, children are the future and hope of the motherland, and parents also have the idea of "looking forward to their children's success and their daughters' success" and make constant efforts to achieve this goal. Ma Bao may be so busy every day that they will eventually worry about their children's grades.
Can children get better grades if they only study and do nothing?
I believe that many parents, in order not to lose their children at the starting line, may get up before dawn in the morning and make various preparations for their babies. Every day for the baby, after busy, there may not even be a moment to rest. However, children may not appreciate it. They eat and dress slowly. It takes countless times to get up for dinner every day, and so does study. As long as they don't stare at it for a moment, they may not be studying or doing their homework.
Although we feel that we have done our best to create better learning conditions for our children, in the end, the results of our efforts are not necessarily satisfactory. I believe many people will wonder, why?
Perhaps many parents have entered such a misunderstanding that grades are more important than anything else. If children get good grades, they will have more prospects in the future. So in order to give children more time to study, they will do everything for them, so that they can only study hard and do nothing. But is this really good?
Children are so active that they can't do nothing all day but study. Moreover, a child's good grades do not necessarily mean that the child must have a future, because the child may become a learning machine that can't take care of himself, but in the future, he needs a person with subjective initiative. In fact, in life, we can also learn a lot and exercise our children.
However, deprived by parents, parents do things for their children. Children's study is their own business, but parents have become forced to study. How can such children study hard and get excellent grades? Family education is very important if you want your children to get excellent grades and have a bright future.
The morning of a 1 1 year-old boy in Japan shocked countless treasure mothers.
Now, a Japanese nanny shared the daily video of her 1 1 year-old son in the morning, but it shocked countless nanny. Many treasure moms sigh and feel that their babies have been abandoned. I don't know if you feel this way after reading it.
This is a Japanese boy of 1 1 years old. Every morning, he not only gets up early, but also prepares a nutritious breakfast for himself. His skillful movements make people doubt his real age, which is no worse than Ma Bao's cooking!
Make your own breakfast, that's all. After dinner, you actually do the dishes yourself. After cleaning up, everyone thought it was time for him to go to school, but what people didn't expect was that he took the dog out for a walk before going home to clean up what he needed for school. When he was ready, he went out to school alone.
After watching this video, many treasure moms are envious of this treasure mom and feel that they have such a son, and they may wake up laughing in their dreams! I have to say that the family education of this Japanese child is very successful. Indeed, Japan still has a lot to learn in educating children.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Although they don't necessarily need to help their children with their homework and teach them a lot of knowledge, as parents, they need to teach their children a lot of things to do, teach them correct behavior and respect, and cultivate good habits, which is very important for their children's future. If they want their children to succeed, a good family education is essential.
So, how should we educate our children and make them better?
Everything for children has become a good habit to cultivate children.
The child is still young, and many things may not be done well, fearing that the child will be tired. Maybe it's to give them more study time, to spoil them, not to let them do anything, and to do well for them. But this is not good, and it may make them lazy. Over time, they treat their parents as nannies and take it for granted that they do these things.
Not only can children not learn to be independent earlier, but they have a strong dependence on their parents and lack enthusiasm for doing things. If children can't be independent and don't study actively, then parents will nag and let their children study hard, which will make them feel bored. How can such a child get excellent grades?
For the sake of children's healthy growth and future, we should try our best to let children do what they can, start with small things, let children learn to take care of themselves, let children learn to take responsibility and learn to study consciously, because only in this way can children better realize that learning is their own business, rather than being forced by their parents.
Giving birth to a child is no longer a machine that can only learn and take care of itself.
Life is actually the best classroom. In life, many things can temper people and give us a lot of inspiration. For example, when children grow up, they can cook some simple meals by themselves.
Let the children learn to make their own breakfast, clean up their own dishes and school supplies, just like the Japanese children in the previous case. In this way, when children do these things, they can not only learn a lot of life skills and the ability to take care of themselves, but also learn to allocate time and sort out the order of things, which is also very helpful for children's study. Children can learn to allocate time reasonably while studying, so as to achieve more efficient learning.
Let children learn to be independent early.
If a person wants to achieve something, then in addition to personal ability, independent personality is also crucial. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate children's independent personality and quality as soon as possible if we want them to achieve excellent results and achieve something in the future.
If the child doesn't care about anything, parents need to worry about it, and parents also help. If it is too easy to get, children will not know how to cherish it and will have a strong dependence on their parents, which is very unfavorable for their healthy growth and future.
Say a word in heart:
It is said that education is the best national defense, not only for children to learn more knowledge, but also for children's family education. Good personality and behavior habits are also indispensable on the road to success. So parents love their children and hope their children have a future. Then parents need to learn to be lazy, let go, let their children learn to be independent, and let them try to do something independently. Only in this way can children grow up healthily and lay a solid foundation for them to fly freely in the blue sky in the future. # Parenting education is an eternal topic #
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