Xiao Li's story

After graduating from college, Xiaoli went to work in a private enterprise. During the examination, colleges and universities did not go ashore. Slowly, with the growth of age, Xiaoli's mind shifted to getting married and having children.

? The year before last, a friend introduced Xiaoli to a boy, a boy from other places, who worked in a local listed company. He is an engineer with a poor family, but he also paid a down payment in the local area. They are about the same age. Boys' income is not high, which may be due to the pressure of repaying loans, and they will work in fast food restaurants on weekends. I feel that boys are ok, so I fall in love. At this time, Xiaoli is not in a hurry to get married, but boys are obviously more anxious than Xiaoli.

Boys have repeatedly asked Xiaoli about her thoughts on marriage, when she plans to get married, and also said that she wants to buy a car. At this time, Xiaoli fell in love for the first time, and she was still confused. She has no clear plan for the future and her answer is vague. She also feels that the two are not married and have no position to intervene. They date two or three times a week and don't chat online at ordinary times.

? When they talked for almost half a year, suddenly, the boy was caught by Xiaoli's roommate and went shopping with another girl. When Xiaoli knew this, she was very confused and asked her boyfriend. At first, the boys denied it and said they were ordinary friends. Later, he probably prepared a showdown and said that other girls were chasing him, but he didn't agree. It is also said that Xiaoli did not reply to their marriage, saying that she wanted to buy a car and did not respond. She thinks Xiaoli doesn't care about him and doesn't really want to get along with him. Feelings reached this point, and then the two naturally broke up.

? After breaking up, boys rushed to associate with girls, and Xiaoli became a person here again. After half a year, watching people around her get married and have children one after another, Xiaoli was also anxious. A colleague introduced a boy of the same age. The boy is more active and localized. Although his family is average and he has a mortgage and car loan, at least he has a stable job and people can watch it, so we talked about it.

Boys don't have much tenderness and love for Xiaoli. They have dated several girls before, probably because they think they are old enough to get married. They can get along well and get married in a few months. Then the parents of both sides meet to talk about marriage. In the process of preparing for marriage, there are also suspicions and calculations between them. Xiaoli felt that it was not easy to find someone similar. When she was old, she got married.

? Xiao Li got married less than a year ago, and now she is pregnant and will have a baby soon. She still works in the same place and lives a happy life, but not a miserable life.

? Xiaoli is one of the people she knows who is relatively calm and calm. She has a patchy job and a patchy marriage. She watches the sunrise and sunset every day, and it takes several years in a blink of an eye.

? I don't know what kind of life you are experiencing when you are reading the story.

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