First, set an example by example.
Parents are children's closest friends, and their words and deeds have a profound influence on children. First of all, we should have good work habits and living habits, at the same time, we should pay attention to our own moral cultivation and knowledge accomplishment, and be a person with noble behavior, rich interest in life, filial piety to parents, sense of responsibility and dedication. Cultivate children from an early age to establish a correct outlook on life and values.
Second, care more about children and be close to them.
Children need the care and care of their parents very much. They care whether their parents are paying full attention to their growth. Some parents rarely meet their children several times a year. Most of them buy things for their children and meet them as materially as possible, but they often don't know what their children need most. Although some parents stay with their children all the year round, they lack close communication between theory and practice like friends. Parents should pay attention to their children's psychological and physical development, get along with their children more, care more about their study and life, and communicate with their children equally, so as to win their trust, respect and admiration.
Third, create a good learning and living environment for children.
Children should have a quiet, ventilated, well-lit and well-equipped environment when studying. Don't disturb children often when they are studying. Try to let them think independently and avoid unnecessary family chats, friends gatherings and so on. Also, we should create a harmonious, peaceful, stable and warm family life atmosphere. Parents should not fight often, which will affect their children's psychological development and pay more attention to their inner feelings.
Fourth, trust children and make them full of vitality.
Children are constantly learning to absorb new things as soon as they land. Children's advantages and disadvantages and habits often benefit from the influence of parents and the surrounding environment. Don't think that children are too young to worry about everything, and let them handle problems independently. To believe in children is to believe in yourself, give them more opportunities to exercise and grow up, and let them participate in various group entertainment activities to enrich their lives and experiences.
Praise more, criticize less, and strive to enhance children's self-confidence.
Appropriate praise is the lubricant and shining point of parent-child communication. Parents should appreciate the advantages of their children as much as possible and tolerate their shortcomings as much as possible. More appreciation, praise and encouragement will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. I firmly believe that necessary praise will make children progress day by day, and too many criticisms and complaints will only make children fall behind more and more.
6. Treat children's shortcomings and mistakes correctly and be patient and tolerant of children.
To err is human. Don't take the method of pushing seedlings to encourage children, blowing chaff and seeing rice, and rushing for success. Be patient, follow the objective laws of the development of things, step by step and step by step. Children are bound to make mistakes when they grow up. Parents should carefully analyze and be tolerant. Don't make a hullabaloo about small mistakes, but wait for big ones. This will only make children rebellious and even oppose you.
Seven, equal dialogue and emotional exchange with children.
Many parents have a wrong view that children are born and raised by themselves, and everything they do must be done according to their own wishes. You have to do whatever you are told, and you are not allowed to have your own opinions and condescending, so that children are afraid and shy away. If you have the heart, you would rather talk to outsiders than communicate with your parents. According to national laws, people are equal, and it is the obligation of parents to raise and educate their children, which cannot be shirked. Children's growth needs not only material security, but also spiritual and emotional sublimation, as well as their own dignity and status. If parents don't pay attention to getting along with their children on an equal footing, their relationship will become more and more awkward.
Eight, children should have their own personality and room for free growth.
It is the wish of most parents. They often control their children very strictly. They don't allow their children to have their own methods and life paths, and let them go step by step according to their own designs, but they often backfire and have little benefit. Children have their own thoughts, their own personalities and their own pursuits. Parents should take advantage of the situation, cultivate their children's innovative ability, let them dare to think and correct the incorrect places, rather than covering everything in the end. Please trust your children! Let children have a free development space and belong to their blue sky!