Xin Qiji is a famous poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, and he is truly both civil and military. He can write and secure the world, and Wu Can can mount a horse and settle down to Kun, which belongs to the kind with the strongest force value among literati and the best ability to write poems among military men.
The most famous thing is that he led 50 cavalry to attack Jin Ying at night and captured the traitor Zhang Anguo alive. However, Xin Qiji named his children "Iron Column", which created a sense of contrast and made people feel that this was not written by a great writer.
We often say: people are as their names suggest! Names are the symbols and signs of each of us. When parents choose their children's names, they mostly rack their brains and read classics, hoping to get a nice name and hope that their children can win the starting line with the name.
Xin Qiji named his son Xin Tiezhu, which was not made up by later generations, as evidenced by poems:
"Qing Ping Le, Tie Zhuer" is a spiritual emperor. Fulu is here. Try to hold the baby under the flower tree. Collapsed, scared, scared. Be smart from today. It's better to be a brother-sister relationship. Look at the Xin family iron column, there is no disaster.
The meaning of this poem is easy to understand, that is, Taoist priests set up altars to recite scriptures and pray for fortune. Yuān chú was introduced to the flower tree, and he was safe and secure from then on. The longer he grows, the smarter he is, and the brother and sister will love each other. In the future, my iron pillar will grow up without disaster and become the pillar of the court.
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When the word Xin Qiji was written is not recorded. Literally, it may have been written in leisure time. When his son was born, Xin Qiji, as a father, was deeply moved. There is a folk proverb that children are easy to raise, so he named his son Tiezhu.
Ancient people thought that "cheap name" could avoid being hurt by malicious people, because ancient people thought that names contained a person's soul, so if someone wanted to hurt you, they would use your name. Taking a "base name" will not attract attention, thus protecting children.
This word fully embodies Xin Qiji's deep affection for the calf and his tender heart of stone. Xin Qiji just wants his children to grow up safely and healthily, so as a father, no matter how high the educational level is, he can't avoid customs.
The last sentence of this word: "Nothing is difficult" refers to the work of another father who also loves his children.
This father is Su, another representative poet of Dongpo's bold school. In the third year of Yuanfeng in Song Shenzong (1080), Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou because of Wutai poetry case, and served as the deputy envoy of Yong Lian. During his stay in Huangzhou,
My concubine Chaoyun was a son of Hiuke on September 27th in the sixth year of Yuanfeng (1083). Su Shi wrote "Washing Children's Plays" on the occasion of "washing three" for his son. Everyone wants to be smart when adopting a son, and I have been delayed by being smart all my life. I only hope that this child is honest and honest, and there is no disaster and no difficulty.
When Su Shi's son was born, it was the time when his life was in great trouble and at a low ebb. Su Shi doesn't want his son to experience such a bumpy life again. He prefers his son to be dull and have no disaster in his life and be an official.
Su Shi named the child "Dun", which means retiring. He hoped that his son would not be as sharp-edged as himself, should know the wisdom of a gentleman who is enough and be full of love for his son.
Xin Qiji is undoubtedly a father who loves children very much. When a child wants to take an exam, he will write a poem saying, "A few days in autumn, ten lines in the sky." Never editing will be self-defeating, and writing will become a chapter "(Zhao Wenke Mian Zhuzi).
There is also "Qingpingle Village Residence" that we have all learned: "The eaves of the Mao are low and small, and the grass is green on the stream. Drunk Wu local drunk, gentle voice, white-haired old man who is it? The eldest son is weeding in the bean field on the east side of the stream, and the second son is busy knitting chicken cages. I like children and hooligans best, lying in the stream and peeling lotus. "
This word is full of his family happiness in the countryside in his later years, with his wife and children, farming and studying. Some people say that Xin Qiji is not the only three sons. In fact, Xin Qiji had many children in his life, but six sons and two daughters were not mentioned.