Classic story of mentality 1: pessimism and optimism have twins with different personalities. My brother is an out-and-out pessimist. My brother is like a born optimist. On Christmas Eve when they were 8 years old, the family wanted to change their extreme personality and prepared different gifts for them: a brand-new bike for their brother and a box full of horse manure for his brother.
It's time to open the presents. Everyone is waiting to see their reaction.
My brother opened his big box first and began to cry. You know I can't ride a bike! It's snowing heavily outside! ? While his parents were busy cheering him up, his brother curiously opened the box that belonged to him? There was a sudden smell of horse manure in the room. Unexpectedly, my brother let out a whoop of joy and then looked around happily. Tell me, where did you hide the horse? ? For a pessimistic person, there is no suitable stool in the world; For a happy person, even if it is raining, his heart is bright.
Classic short story of mentality 2: Does Valenda have a mentality psychology? Valenda mentality? . Valenda is a famous American tightrope walker. In an important performance, he unfortunately slipped and died. His wife said afterwards, I know something must happen this time, because he always kept saying before he took office that this time is too important to fail. However, in every successful performance before, he only thought about the tightrope itself and ignored everything it might bring.
Later, people called it "the mentality of being absorbed in the work itself and not caring about the meaning of the work, and not suffering from loss"? Valenda mentality? .
A study by Stanford University in the United States also shows that the images in a person's brain will stimulate the nervous system as well as the actual situation. For example, when a golfer repeatedly tells himself before hitting the ball? Don't hit the ball into the water? Sometimes, it often appears in his brain? The ball fell into the water? Scene, and the result is often counterproductive, most of the time the ball will fall into the water.
This study confirms Valenda's mentality from the opposite side.
The law of things is this: if you pay too much attention to success or failure, you will often fail. As long as you pay attention to the characteristics and laws of things and concentrate on doing it well, you will get unexpected results, so we often say: mentality is the most important. ?
Mentality three classic story: a young man carrying a big bag on the road, looking for a boundless master. He said: master, I am so lonely, so miserable, so lonely, and the long journey makes me extremely tired; My shoes are torn and thorns cut my feet; My hand is hurt and bleeding. Why can't I find the sunshine in my heart? ?
The master asked:? What's in your big package? ? The youth said:? This means a lot to me. It contains the pain of every fall, every cry after injury, and every lonely worry. Only through it can I find you. ?
So the boundless master took the youth to the river and they crossed the river by boat. After landing, the master said, you carry the boat and go forward! What, take the boat on the road? ? The young man was surprised. It's too heavy. Can I carry it? Yes, son, you can't take it with you. ? The master said with a smile that the boat is useful when crossing the river. But when we cross the river, we will put down the boat and continue our way. Otherwise, it will become our burden. Pain, loneliness, loneliness, disaster and tears are all useful to life. They can sublimate life, but if you don't forget them, they will become a burden to life. Put the gun down. Son, life can't be too heavy. ? The young man put down his luggage and went on his way. He found his pace relaxed and happy, much faster than before. It turns out that life is not so heavy.
On the journey of life, if you always carry a burden, you will never be able to move forward. Only by putting down the burden and going into battle lightly can we go further.
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