Students with symptoms of depression, one of the top ten diseases in this century, account for 18%-44%. This symptom is characterized by excessive depression, hopelessness, frequent self-reproach and self-mockery, easy crying, listlessness and even suicidal thoughts. None of these conditions can be ignored. Another symptom with many problems is maladjustment, which is manifested as dislike of participating in school extracurricular activities, inadaptability to present school life, inadaptability to present social atmosphere, inadaptability to teachers' teaching methods, inadaptability to home living environment and so on.
In addition, there are many unhealthy psychological factors of middle school students-college students.
Nowadays, if you decorate colleges and universities with words like sacredness and mystery, the pen in your hand will become a meal. It is not difficult to find that the life of college students has changed greatly under the impact of various trends. They have been more and more integrated into society, and their thoughts, behaviors and lifestyles have been involved in the cleansing of the opening tide. Faced with the great temptation of the colorful world, many college students have become confused and even lost their way.
▲ Abnormal consumption concept
A university conducted a consumption survey on some students in this school. Statistics show that the average monthly consumption of students is above that of 500 yuan, but in fact, many students are more than that. With such high consumption, where did all the money go?
Some students are worried about tomorrow's breakfast, and some students throw a few dollars. It is common to go out for a meal in college, and there are various reasons. It is natural to have a birthday party. If you receive the money order, everyone will have one. If a fellow villager comes to visit you, invite you to dinner. Having a scholarship and friends of the opposite sex is the best excuse. Its cost ranges from tens of yuan to more than one thousand yuan. Squeeze and wipe his mouth and flatten his parents' pockets.
At school, you can always meet fashionable and avant-garde classmates, some of whom don't even wear famous brands. I once saw a boy with a small lighter pinned to his waist and asked him how much it was. He snapped his fingers smartly and said, "It's not expensive, it's only a little over 300." A word "talent" makes people feel excited. 300 yuan is not much, but it may be a poor student's living expenses for more than a month.
According to the newspaper, a university once stipulated that taxis were not allowed to enter the school gate. Later, students strongly reflected that this provision did not meet the needs of developing the socialist market economy. As a result, the regulation died within one month. Some boys also said: "Going out to squeeze the bus is falling in price, and technology has liberated people's legs, so we must use technology." In addition, cosmetics, cigarettes, snacks, movies and "emotional investment" are also the main items of college students' consumption.
▲ Abandoned studies
The severe employment situation has a great impact on college students, so it is undoubtedly the wisest choice to continue the postgraduate entrance examination and TOEFL fees. However, some students still have some residual thoughts such as "the favored son of heaven" and "the emperor's daughter doesn't worry about marrying". They usually say that the professor's class is the best lullaby, so it is better to have a "tractor war" and a "landlord war" in the dormitory. Go through the back door during the exam, or take risks in the examination room, copy the tricks again and again, and muddle through. After a few years, the skills of playing cards have greatly increased, and the studies have been abandoned. What's more, the examination room was arrested and even the degree was lost.
Some students have their own computers, so it is good to spend some money as an intellectual investment. But spending money on crooked ways is another matter. It is understood that not all students with computers are learning useful things with computers. Playing games and watching pornographic CDs have become the main functions of computers. Some even connect to the internet, immerse themselves in the virtual world all day, turn a blind eye to the things around them, and doing homework in class seems to be a very distant thing.
▲ prepaid life
More and more students go back to the dormitory or spend the night outside, so enjoying life in advance has been recognized in their values. It is suspected that how many condoms were fished out from the sewer of a student dormitory, but there is no evidence.
With the development of the times, the concept of college students has changed greatly, and the banner of chastity seems to be unable to carry any longer. They advocate living just for enjoyment.
When the society calls for true love to wait, campus cohabitation is getting worse. The appearance of condom vending machines on the campus of colleges and universities seems to give them a hint to some extent: the society has acknowledged our behavior. Although this incident has caused a lot of controversy in the media, no one can deny that it has brought adverse effects to college students.
Colleges and universities are a small society with members from all directions. Different pre-school education and family environment determine their differences in personality and quality, and they are prone to make mistakes. I remember someone saying that there is nothing unforgivable about youth except crime. Exposing shortcomings is not for ridicule. Young people need social help and rational guidance. The performance directly or indirectly shows that they have certain mental health problems. For example, arguing with others too much, always feel that others are talking about themselves behind their backs, which is paranoia; Some students can't control their temper, make a hullabaloo about and throw things; Poor interpersonal relationship, excessive tension and sensitivity; Sometimes I feel anxious; Teachers, parents and classmates are hot and cold, and their learning motivation is high and low; I feel particularly stressed in studying, and I hate it when I mention going to school. Students with better grades are often unconvinced, psychologically unbalanced and so on. Although these behaviors are not universal, they do exist in many children, even very serious.
There are many factors that cause the mental health of middle school students. In addition to the influence of students' physical and mental development, family environment, living environment and school education are all important factors affecting students' mental health. Some teachers think that there are more only children among middle school students now, and the special environment has made them develop a withdrawn, willful and selfish character since childhood. Most of the parents of this generation of children caught up with the Cultural Revolution and did not receive higher education, which led them to pin all their hopes on their children, and the high expectations caused great pressure on their children. At the same time, they also think that teachers should have good quality, because it can directly affect the mental health level of students.
Of course, children with unhealthy tendencies need not be afraid or alarmed. They should have a correct attitude, gradually improve interpersonal relationships in their lives, participate in more meaningful activities, listen to more touching stories and read more books with profound philosophy. Go for a walk in the suburbs in your spare time and help your mother do some housework during the break. In learning, we should not only establish lofty ideals, but also have specific learning goals; Temper your will, build up your self-confidence, overcome your inferiority complex and say to yourself, "I can!" " Whatever happens. I believe tomorrow will always be beautiful. If all the above methods fail, you might as well seek the help of a psychologist. Try it, and health will definitely come back to you.