Now some girls are pregnant, but accidental injuries are inevitable, and some are mistakes caused by their own carelessness and ignorance.
At this time, reprimanding is not the best way to repair the injured youth. How to correctly handle the termination of pregnancy and minimize the damage is the most important thing. Signs of pregnancy. Menstruation stops.
Girls who have just come to menarche may have irregular menstruation, but if their menstruation is normal, but they don't come on the coming day and have sexual contact with the opposite sex, * * * or the other person * * * (* * can survive for 2 to 3 hours in vitro), they should be vigilant. Secondly, * * * will become larger in a short time, and there will be frequent urination and elevated body temperature in the later period.
Symptoms such as nausea, vomiting and greasy may not appear until three to five months after pregnancy. Don't be afraid if you have any questions about the inspection method. You can test it yourself first.
Use early pregnancy test paper and buy it in a regular pharmacy, which is urine sample testing. Don't worry. The accuracy of test paper is relatively high, but it is not foolproof, and it needs to be further tested in the hospital.
Going to the hospital for examination is also a urine sample test and B-ultrasound examination. Don't worry, it won't hurt. Get ready to relax, and then relax.
Don't panic and don't be afraid. This is not a disease. Pregnancy is actually a physiological phenomenon, but it happens at an inappropriate time.
So the medical term you want to choose is called termination of pregnancy. In our words, this is called abortion.
First of all, be calm. Don't hide, be sad alone.
Ask for help from the person you trust most. Suggest looking for mom. Although it will make her sad, mom is the most reliable friend. First of all, she loves you the most. Secondly, as an adult, she knows how to handle it correctly and minimize the harm.
If it is really difficult, find your best friend and let her go to her mother or elder to help you indirectly. Second, be brave.
Anyway, it has already happened. If it comes from an accidental injury, it is only a small setback in your life. You should be brave and positive. There is still a long way to go, and there are many beautiful things waiting for you, aren't there? If it is your own fault, it is everyone's ability to bear the mistakes. Besides, if you know your mistakes, you are still a good girl. Moreover, only by choosing abortion can the harm caused by sex be minimized.
Abortion preparation If you have not had a B-ultrasound examination before, then the examination is necessary. Mainly to determine whether it is a normal pregnancy, that is, intrauterine pregnancy.
If it is an ectopic pregnancy, you can't use the usual abortion method and need hospitalization. Although the probability of ectopic pregnancy is very small.
At present, there are two kinds of abortion methods used in domestic hospitals, drug abortion and induced abortion. Drug abortion should be carried out within 7 weeks of pregnancy, and induced abortion should be carried out within 10 weeks.
If it is confirmed that it is a normal pregnancy, it is necessary to start preparing for abortion. First, relax.
Because at this time, mental health and physical health are equally important. Also pay attention to keep warm, don't catch a cold, if you have cold symptoms, you should seek medical advice in time, and don't have an abortion during a cold.
The day before going to the hospital, take a hot bath and prepare clean substitutes, sanitary napkins, etc. What kind of abortion method should be consulted, because everyone's physical condition is different.
Both will bring some harm to the body, but there is no wound. As long as you do a good job of post-maintenance, you will soon recover. Drug abortion must be carried out under the guidance of a doctor.
Don't eat in the morning for induced abortion. Remember, you must choose regular hospitals and professional doctors.
Stay in bed for about a week after abortion. Within a month, avoid eating cold and spicy food and cold water. It is best to wash your hair less or not. Immediately after washing, dry your hair with the hot air of a hair dryer. Can't take a shower.
Eat more nutritious food. It is very important to keep in touch with the doctor, and report to the doctor immediately if there is any abnormality.
Keep a peaceful mind. Taking emergency contraceptives within 72 hours after sexual intercourse can also avoid pregnancy.
But birth control pills can also bring some harm to the body, such as endocrine disorders, bad mood and so on. However, the above are all hindsight, which is a way to reduce the harm after pregnancy.
How to protect your body is the best policy. There are two main situations of middle school students' pregnancy, one is external injury and the other is their own fault.
In order to avoid trauma, we should be careful not to walk alone at night. If you go home by car, you'd better ask your family to pick you up where you got off or downstairs. If you find someone suspicious following you, go to a crowded place for help.
Don't be alone with strangers of the opposite sex.
2. What are the sexual physiological characteristics of women?
The arousal of women is slow, especially before sex.
Husband's sweet words, gentle touching and kissing can especially arouse women's * * *. Sex produced by * * * can best satisfy women's * * *.
* * * * * * started in women's * * *, and then spread around. With the increase of * * * * intensity, this climax can spread to every part of the body. At the peak of sex, almost the whole body melts, which is an indescribable sex.
In sexual life, women's self-obedience is an important condition for sexual harmony, and trust and understanding of their husbands can often better meet the expectations of both men and women. Women's sexual decline is also relatively slow, and they often hope that their husbands will continue to caress after * * *, and then the climax will completely subside.
There is no refractory period for women. If after making love has sex, she will have sex again.
3. What is a woman's sexual physiological process?
The physiological process of healthy and mature women is sexual excitement.
Female sexual excitement is caused by various external factors. Excited, genital congestion makes * * * exude a lot of liquid, which is the main symbol of female sexual arousal.
Excited at the same time, the size of * * * becomes swollen because of congestion, especially the small size of * * *. When the exudate of * * * flows out, the small * * * separates and * * * begins to swell. During the exciting period, due to the contraction of muscles, the cervix and uterine body automatically lift upward, which makes the * * * elongate and expand to accommodate the congested * * *.
When women are excited, they will stand up and gradually expand, and the muscles of limbs, neck and pelvis will involuntarily contract. Increased secretion of vestibular glands.
When excited, vestibular gland secretion increased significantly. * * * further congestion and expansion, showing deep purple.
* * * Increase by about 1/4. At this time, the skin in many parts of the body will produce "sexual flushing".
Sex * * *. * * * muscle spasm, followed by uterine rhythmic contraction.
At this time, the nerves are excited, the language or movements increase, the breathing is short, the muscles of the whole body will contract at will and feel dizzy instantly. This time, sex is the most obvious. After sex, the body will return to the state before sexual arousal.
Female pelvic congestion subsided more slowly than male, and muscle tension gradually subsided within 5 minutes. At this point, women's sexual physiological process is over.
4. Sexual physiology
Sexual physiological characteristics: can achieve sex many times.
Women can get many times in a normal * *. Although the duration of female sexual characteristics is very short, most women have experienced a one-off orgasm in a * * * *. As long as effective sexual characteristics * * * continue to exist, such as soft sexual characteristics continue to twitch in * * * *, female sexual characteristics can reappear * *, and even get sexual characteristics * * * several times in a row.
Achieve sex through experience. Some women don't feel * * * * in a small amount of * * * activities, but feel very mediocre.
These women need to actively understand and observe the process of * * * in many * * activities, experience the sensory changes of the whole body and sexual organs in the process of * * *, actively accumulate experience, constantly increase, enrich, enrich and enlarge, and finally get * * * *. There is no refractory period in sexual life.
Women in sexual intercourse * * * just after, as long as there is a suitable sexual intercourse * * *, you can repeat sexual intercourse * * *, you can arouse sexual intercourse again * * *. In addition, women are also eager to last longer every time, especially those who are healthy and have a strong desire to repeat * * * and * * * for a long time in sexual life.
5. Women's demand for sex life
Sex is the source of life and potential happiness and pain.
Whether we actively participate or not, * * * is a part of our daily thoughts and emotions. For children, sex is a game; For teenagers, sex is the source of strong desire; For adults, sex is a combination of love and childbearing; For the elderly, sex is a kind of enjoyment.
The physiological root of sexual behavior is generally based on "instinct". For most living things, sex and reproduction are closely related. From the perspective of evolution, the primary purpose of sex is to reproduce.
Sexual behavior is driven by psychological forces. In addition to reproduction and happiness being the primary purpose of sex, sex is also used as a tool to express and gain love. Sex is also an important part of personal self-concept or identity consciousness; Sexual activity is also a form of self-expression of creativity or aesthetic consciousness; Sex is also a form of interpersonal communication. From the social factors of sexual behavior, sex is a kind of adhesive, which binds men and women together to form a stable family.
People have used sex on many occasions to express extremely high or low goals; On the other hand, the degree of sexual abuse is more cruel and cruel than any other human needs. Through the socialization of sex, we have learned the cultural values and sexual behaviors, and sexual behaviors are restricted by social norms called customs.
Society not only pays attention to people's sexual behavior, but also its norms penetrate into every gap in private life. In addition to the internal mechanism and the role of guilt and shame, customs also control people's sexual behavior through external means.
There are two basic viewpoints trying to restrain social forces: tolerance of sex will lead to sexual indulgence, which will infringe on families, destroy social structure, weaken national power and disintegrate society; Uncontrolled sexual behavior will consume people's energy for construction and creation. Therefore, sex is not a panacea to solve the troubles of life, but a fountain of a happy life.
Therefore, men and women, old and young, yearn for sex. * * * is not a simple physical impulse, it contains interactive elements.
* * * can be regarded as the synthesis of many unconditional reflex functions. The end result of this function is * * *, which is a reproductive instinct.
Nature uses the method of * * * to fertilize the human body, and this process is carried out in concealment. Therefore, the physical attraction between men and women is the main component of * * *. In a narrow sense, the specific performance of * * * is sexual behavior, and sexual behavior is * * *.
But after careful analysis, the concept of sexual behavior is much broader than * * *. In his book Sociology of Sex, Liu Dalin believes that sexual behavior can be divided into the following three types: 1.
Intentional sex. This is * * *.
* * * is the direct purpose and the highest embodiment of sexual behavior. 2。
Procedural behavior. This is the preparation behavior before * * *, such as kissing, caressing and other flirting actions. The purpose of these actions is to stimulate and implement * * *.
* * *, also through these actions, let * * * gradually subsided. 3。
Marginality. This kind of sexual behavior has a wide range, and its purpose is to express love, or just a natural expression of love, not for * * *.
For example, it includes blinking, smiling, exchanging tokens, writing love letters, etc. , as well as various ways of expressing love in traditional folk customs and national customs, as well as physical contact behaviors that are not aimed at * * * * such as hugging and kissing. The characteristics of human beings can be summarized in six aspects: 1.
Universality. Everyone in the world is the product of * * * *; At the same time, every normal person has sexual needs, wants to get married and have children, and also has * * * behavior.
2。 Importance.
* * * is one of the most basic physiological and psychological needs of human beings, and it is the second natural instinct besides diet. People get great spiritual pleasure in the process of satisfying * * *.
* * * behavior is a necessary means for human beings to reproduce, which is related to the physical and mental health of each generation and the development of the nation and society, so people have attached great importance to the problem of * * * since ancient times. 3。
In the long run. Modern scientific research has proved that people have sexual consciousness since childhood; When the adolescent consciousness is mature, there is a requirement of * * * *; Realize the practice of * * * after marriage and stay with people for life.
4。 Concealed.
The exclusiveness of * * determines the concealment of sexual behavior. In primitive society, because human beings are in the stage of group marriage and hybridization, sexual behavior is not hidden.
Later, with the development of society and the emergence of monogamous families, women can only belong to one man, and chastity is extremely strict, so sexual behavior cannot be involved or seen by a third party. In modern society, legal couples can express their feelings and emotions, which is acceptable and tolerated by society.
However, human sexual behavior is still hidden, which is the necessity of the development of modern human civilization, sex science and sex culture. 5。
Serious. * * * Although it happens between two people, although it stems from human instinct, it is by no means a personal affair, nor is it just to meet the requirements of pleasure. It is responsible for each other, for future generations, for social development, and is restricted by laws and social morality, so it has great seriousness, that is, it requires people to take a serious attitude towards * * *.
6。 Opposition.
What is related to seriousness is opposition. The same is the behavior of * * *, and some are noble and moral; Some are low-level, immoral and even illegal.
This opposition is determined by social moral standards and relevant laws and regulations. According to the cultural tradition of China, * * * must be combined with love, * * * must be combined with marriage, and unmarried * * * is not accepted by the dominant public opinion.
6. What physiological knowledge should women have?
Female urethra is short and straight in physiology and anatomy, and the distance between urethra and * * * * is very close, so bacteria can easily invade. Therefore, as women, we should pay special attention to the physiological health of the urinary system and reproductive system.
In infancy, parents should change diapers frequently and open their pants as much as possible to avoid feces and external bacteria polluting the urethra; After defecation, toilet paper should be wiped from the front to the back of the body. During marriage, we should pay attention to physical hygiene during sexual life, and both sides should clean the perineum before each sexual life to avoid excessive fatigue.
In menopausal women, due to the decrease of estrogen secretion, glands atrophy, and women's "self-purification" ability is weakened, and bacteria can easily take advantage of it. At this time, you can take some estrogen under the guidance of a doctor and cooperate with antibacterial treatment. In addition, once the symptoms of frequent micturition, urgency and dysuria appear, it means that the urethra has been infected, and regular treatment must be carried out at this time, otherwise bacteria will quickly rise to the kidney along the urethra, bladder and ureter, causing inflammation of the kidney.