What should I do if my grown-up children are disobedient? 1, disobedient children have many ideas. In fact, the essence of disobedience is that children have their own ideas and are unwilling to do things according to their parents' ideas. In a sense, these disobedient children have ideas, and they only listen to their parents more than children without ideas. Therefore, when these children grow up, they are more active, more active and naturally more productive.
2, the heart becomes practical. Some children were very naughty when they were young. Today they broke the Li family's glass, and tomorrow they broke the Zhang family's things. In short, people who look at it shake their heads, which makes people very uncomfortable. But perhaps after entering high school, these naughty children were civilized at once, putting away all the fun and learning, and many who had studied hard were admitted to good universities.
3. disobedient children are happy inside. Of course, disobedient children sometimes talk back and even have contradictions. So these children will vent those negative emotions in time, but they will be happier. From a certain point of view, such children can grow up healthily without accumulating negative emotions, so their minds will grow faster and more mature.
4. Give full play to your strengths and have something to do. In fact, those naughty children have many advantages, such as being enthusiastic and cheerful, not afraid of life, always full of energy, thinking very fast and always having new ideas. Naughty children may give parents and teachers a headache when they are young, but as long as they know how to make good use of these advantages after entering the society, they will often get along well. But parents should also get proper guidance and discipline, and mischief is also the bottom line. Don't let children be called "uneducated".
5. disobedient children continue to grow up. Disobedient children will certainly attract the attention of their parents, and even educate and scold them. In this process, they will constantly reflect on themselves, reflect on themselves and transform themselves. In any case, these disobedient children will grow faster than those obedient children, so their psychology will be more mature and they may be more successful in the future.
6. Go astray and regret for life. Some children are so naughty that they don't consider the consequences at all, and they have reached the level of "uneducated". Even though he has entered middle school, he should be sensible. He still likes to fight with people. This kind of child is the easiest to go astray. If your child is like this, you should discipline him well.