About work
Point 1: Have a clear goal.
I especially like a sentence: a life with goals is called travel; A life without goals is called vagrancy. I saw an interesting question on the Internet these days: "If you are 35 years old now, what do you want to say to yourself at the age of 25?" After reading the comments carefully, 80% people regret that they have not set a clear goal and lived in a daze. Looking around, those who used to be at the same starting line and finally lived the enviable life of others have one thing in common, that is, clear life goals.
Number two: No, blx.
As an adult, blx is the most taboo, especially in the workplace, blx can easily make people tired of you. Dong Mingzhu once said: In the workplace, the least efficient thing is not brushing Taobao or chatting on WeChat, but blx. "A person who is sensitive in the inland sea and has poor self-repair ability can't go far. People are not born strong, everyone has a fragile and sensitive side. In the long journey of life, what we have to do is to constantly evolve ourselves and polish blx into a diamond heart.
About life
Number three: But second-hand life.
What is second-hand life? That is, if you want to read a book, watch a movie and play a game, you just look at other people's feelings and don't feel it yourself. Doing so can really save you a lot of time, but the answer is how much you really grow and gain. I will definitely read and experience the books, movies and games I am interested in, and enjoy what really belongs to me. It is not easy to lie down alive in this world. Whether it's good or bad, it's not for nothing to watch and play.
The fourth point: don't be a slave to emotions.
In the adult world, there is no such word as easy. No matter which class you are in, everyone will have all kinds of emotions. During this time, my mood fluctuation address is relatively large, because of my carelessness, a series of problems followed; The more problems, the greater the mood swings, a vicious circle, leading to insomnia, physical disorders, and the whole hospital.
Therefore, when you are driven by emotions, you must be calm, don't panic, and restrain yourself. You can try to read your favorite books, or practice calligraphy, or eat your favorite food and set yourself free.
About health
Point 5: Don't consume your body excessively.
People can control their desires, but they must not consume their bodies excessively. Once, because of my work, I met a senior who was superior in all aspects. She is an excellent representative and is often recommended to share inspirational stories on stage. Less than forty years old, the purpose of burning is admirable. However, in less than a year, it took only a moment to retreat from glory to gloom. It turned out that the body could not bear it. Never use your youth to consume your health wantonly. The faster you consume, the closer you are to the end of your life.
Sixth point: keep exercising.
Everyone knows the benefits of exercise, but few people can really stick to it; Exercise may not help us solve practical problems, but it can help you adjust your state. Especially in the trough, after sweating like rain in the state of exercise, you will find that many troubles will be left behind. The people around me who insist on exercising are far from those who don't exercise at ordinary times. The former looks young and energetic, while the latter looks weak. Sticking to exercise can make you realize the benefits of self-discipline.
About confusion
Seventh: Don't get married casually.
Nowadays, many young people, especially those born after 30+, look at all their friends and get married, leaving themselves alone and empty. It seems that I was abandoned by the world, urged by my colleagues and parents around me, and then I found someone to marry casually in a panic. It's really not necessary. The result of casual marriage: either through thick and thin, or through self-support, and finally become a familiar stranger.
Eighth point: we must have a second round of thinking.
What's the answer? It is to recall what you have done, see how you have come, and think about what can be optimized. Through the review, reflection and exploration of past thinking and behavior, we can improve our ability. The second round can let us know what our real advantages are, and what disadvantages exist at the same time, which need to be made up in the future. Look for room to grow, not grow without direction and lose yourself.
About the future
Point 9: Improve a skill.
Looking around, people who have made achievements in a certain industry or field have a skill that others cannot take away. I have a friend who has been trying to improve his habits in the past two years, whether on weekdays or in his spare time. She likes writing. From the beginning, I only wrote a running account, but now I have become a big coffee and published a book. In just two years, the salary has doubled, the value has soared, and the living standard has reached a new level. Improving every skill is to open the width of life.
The fourth point: keep the habit of saving money.
When people reach a certain age, the greatest sense of security is not pushing a cup for a change, but that there are several numbers in your bank card. Saving money and not saving money are two completely different lives. Especially when you have no choice but to worry about money, you will really feel the importance of deposit. When you have to face the young and old, you are in crisis, and you have no confidence to fight against life at all. People who don't have deposits have a low fault tolerance rate, and if they make a mistake, their lives will be in chaos.