Children receive e-education, leaving a sense of security and peace that is not easily disturbed. It is these fierce conflicts and wars.
The most terrible thing is to accept yourself completely.
A hundred wise men make a big fool.
Gather a hundred great minds and you will get a big fool.
Here, only the depths of the soul are mysterious, and the opening of two personalities to the night of the universe is like the contact of two chemicals: if there is any reaction, both will change.
The meeting of two souls is like the contact of two chemicals: a little reaction will completely change them.
We can't change anything unless we accept it. Condemnation will not liberate, but oppress.
For any transaction, to change it, you must accept it first. Condemnation will not liberate, it will only oppress.
As far as we know, the only purpose of human existence is to light a beam of light in the mere darkness.
As far as we can see, the only purpose of human existence is to light a little light in the darkness of pure existence.
It all depends on how we look at things, not how they are.
What determines everything is the way we look at things, not the things themselves.
Psychologists' famous words
1. Love is essentially giving, not getting.
2. The way to connect a good feeling with something is the most effective way to change people's behavior without coercion.
Don't criticize children in public, which seriously hurts their self-esteem. The really effective way is to praise in public and criticize behind.
When everything was hopeless, I watched the stonemason knock on his stone hundreds of times, and no cracks appeared. But at the 10 1 time, the stone was split in half. I realized that it was not this blow, but the previous blow that split it. Jia collis
French educator lujun once said: Self-confidence is a miracle of career. With it, your talents can be inexhaustible; A person without self-confidence will not seize the opportunity, no matter how talented he is.
6. Between husband and wife, between lovers, between parents and children, we must turn a blind eye.
7. Parents don't love, don't love, or don't love enough, which will definitely cause children's psychological obstacles and defects to varying degrees.
8. Giving is the highest expression of potential.
9. Children need human dignity. Children are the most vulnerable and vulnerable people emotionally. Children are more tolerant than adults. It is not that they are not angry, but that they know there is nothing they can do.
10. According to the investigation, among the 100 times of parental discipline, children benefited less than 5 times.
1 1. Teachers are human beings, and teachers also have emotions and fears, but as long as we face students as teachers, all our emotions and fears should be for the students we face.
12. There is no mountain to cross and no hurdle to cross. Why can't you cross yourself?
13. Children without problems are the biggest problem, and classes without problems are the classes with the most problems.
14. Sit still for fifteen minutes every day, listen to your breath, feel it, feel yourself, and try not to think about anything. Eric fromm
15. American psychologists have studied the personalities of 150 successful people and found that they all have three excellent qualities: first, they are tough; Second, he is good at accumulating achievements to achieve his goals; The third is self-confidence and not inferiority.
16. You should really grasp the core of each problem, divide the work into sections and allocate time appropriately. Franklin
17. You know what depression means. You have climbed up in the company or any field all your life, only to find yourself climbing the wrong wall in the end. arc
18. Young students have no puppy love, only first love. First love is the most beautiful, pure and romantic emotion of human beings, and it is the most beautiful emotion worthy of human beings to express in the most beautiful language.
19. People's psychological obstacles bring a person more difficulties in his life than ordinary physical defects.
20. A person's life is a journey to learn to love himself. Only by learning to love yourself first can we extend love to everyone we meet on the journey.
2 1. What do people live for? Know yourself. Know yourself before you can change yourself.
22. Everyone needs praise and recognition; Adults have it, let alone children. It's not enough to discover your child's advantages and strengths, but also express your praise without stint. The best way to mobilize children is to praise them and tell them that they are the best!
23. Everyone has his own life experience. Only by looking at it with a positive attitude can it become your wealth.
24. Life is not a short candle, but a torch we hold temporarily; As soon as we burn it, we will give it to the next generation. Bernard Shaw's
25. Life experience is not necessarily wealth. Only how to know your life experience can you become your own wealth.
26. The first education you should receive in life is the education of love.
27. Know yourself before you can help others.
28. Anyone with perfect facial features must know that he can't hide secrets. If his lips are closed, his fingertips will speak; Even every pore in his body will betray him. Sigmund. Floyd
29. If you deliberately avoid the important and try to do some small things within your power, then I warn you that your future life will be very unfortunate. Because you always have to avoid all kinds of opportunities and possibilities related to your ability. American psychologist Maslow
30. There is no impassable road in the world, only the road you dare not take.
3 1. All ideological education, moral education and psychological education must be based on extensive and solid scientific knowledge.
32. Greed is a hell that will bring infinite pain to people. It exhausts people's energy in trying to meet their needs, but it doesn't bring people satisfaction.
Only when there is love in your heart can you find love and a great child, just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
What the students say is true, but it is not necessarily true.
35. To learn psychology, you must first change yourself.
Nothing will happen unless you dream first. Carl St. Borg
37. There are three people who are my friends, who love me, hate me and are indifferent to me. Those who love me teach me gentleness; People who hate me teach me to be cautious; People who are indifferent to me teach me to stand on my own two feet. Jiedinger
38. Praise, affirmation and kindness to improve children's self-awareness; Criticism, accusation and indifference reduce children's self-cognition.
39. The real ideal is by no means a mysterious force above the individual, but a powerful expression of unconditional self-affirmation. Any ideal that violates the principle of self-affirmation has been proved to be not an ideal, but a morbid goal.
40. The maintenance and reproduction of knowledge largely depends on the intensity of attention and interest at the beginning of relevant psychological activities. German psychologist Ebbinghaus
4 1. The first element of being a good teacher, always watching the students; The second element is to treat students equally.
Complete works of classic quotations from psychologist Zhang Yijun.
Zhang Yijun, female, psychologist. When I was in college, I was admitted to the Department of Psychology as my first choice. I lost to the United States and got a doctorate in psychology from Georgia Institute of Technology. The unique style of telling the truth simply and clearly is widely welcomed by the public, which helps everyone to improve their psychological quality and walk easily in the workplace, love, marriage and family.
Zhang Yijun's classic quotations:
Falling in love is like playing mahjong. There is no fun without being serious. If you are too serious, you will feel sad. Cultivate a little game spirit.
If you want others to like you and give you enthusiasm, the biggest strategy is that you give others enthusiasm first.
A sense of dignity is like a corset, which makes a woman noble, but if it is deliberately revealed, it becomes vulgar.
The man who often makes you smile is a good man.
A gentleman is someone who can support his weight with elbows and knees.
Jealousy will kill you. If you lose your life, you lose an important part of it.
Don't force a man to lie, he will hate you, and don't take his words seriously, you will hate him.
If your room is getting whiter and whiter, there are fewer visitors, and there is no dust on the desktop floor, you will be upset when you hear the noise of children. Wash your hands more than 20 times a day-see a psychologist.
Times are different, men and women are the same. Connecting fuses, repairing toilets, changing tires and installing anti-virus software are no more difficult than having children.
Women have left and right brains, while men have left and right testicles.
Instead of praying, think-God must not be a woman, otherwise he wouldn't have created so many imperfect women.
Men always pay attention to women who don't care about them, and so does fate.
Whether a person is reliable depends on what means you use to control him.
Adhere to principles in major events and learn to be flexible in minor ones.
You should have the courage to break a wrong promise.
Marrying a rich man is like robbing a bank. The gains are always great, but the consequences are endless. If you can't try, you'd better not try.
Romance is a beautiful evening dress, but you can't wear it all the time.
The secret of staying young is to have an unstable heart!
One of the advantages of living alone is that you don't have to wake up in the arms of someone you loved a long time ago.
A middle-aged man who got rich and divorced proposed to say no, the man who betrayed you wanted to say no later, and the man who betrayed you asked you to say no later.
If you don't mind what you want, you will look good whether you win or lose.
Don't try to be a single mother-children don't need a father, but you need someone to take care of them. You really need someone to take care of them.
A man's desire for himself is like a lawyer's desire for a criminal as his client: even if he knows he is guilty, he must defend himself.
If the man you love unfortunately has another woman, whether it is a wife, fiancee or girlfriend, please don't try to meet and talk with her, there is no need to leave immediately!
The advantage of cars over people is that they won't run away by themselves. Of course, it may be stolen, but you can buy insurance, but men can't.
It's best not to let the opposite sex know where you live on the first date. If the other party insists on seeing you off, he can trust me downstairs and won't die of thirst without a cup of tea.
Think of love as a luxury of life: you can live without the best.
Travel is the reading of the mind, and reading is the travel of the mind.
Classic Quotations of Carnegie Psychologists (89)
1. Anyone who doesn't care about others will suffer great difficulties and hurt others greatly in his life. It is this kind of person who has caused all kinds of human mistakes.
Second, there are three kinds of things that hurt people: troubles, quarrels, and empty wallets.
From the day you came into this world, all your actions were for yourself, because of what you need.
Treat others as you want them to treat you.
5. Intellectuality is related to age, experience and mentality.
6. There is no absolute fairness in life, but there is also relative fairness. On a scale, the more you get, the more you have to bear than others.
Seven, if we have a peaceful mind and enough courage, then sitting on our coffin, people can enjoy the infinite scenery and sing loudly when they are hungry and cold.
Eight, we feel tired because our emotions are the tension of our bodies.
It is difficult to listen to others criticize our mistakes, but if they humbly claim that they are not perfect, we will accept them more easily. Admitting a person's own mistakes, even if you haven't corrected them, will help improve your behavior. Think about your own mistakes before blaming others.
In this world, the only way to influence others is to talk about what they want and tell them how to get it.
Only stupid people criticize, reprimand and complain, but if you want to forgive and understand others, you need to work hard on your personality and self-denial.
Twelve, a person who works hard on the road of struggle, if you don't clearly divide the steps, it is equivalent to traveling to a place without specifying sleep and itinerary first. It is important to distinguish the steps.
The success of a person's career depends entirely on whether he is interested in it, not on the door to success opened by hard work.
No matter what you sell, the first thing you should do is to know as much as possible about it.
Fifteen, try to work in a comfortable situation. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
Sixteen, if young people want to live successfully, they must learn to stand on their own feet, eliminate the obstacles of ambush everywhere, educate him at home, and let him have an independent personality recognized by people.
Everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is only one effective way, and that is to control their own thoughts. Happiness does not depend on external conditions, but depends on internal conditions.
18. There is no denying the fact that everyone you meet will feel better than you in some ways. Admit each other's importance skillfully and express it sincerely, and you will get his friendship.
Nineteen, no matter how down and out tomorrow, at least today is not wasted.
Twenty, many people can't be good communicators, mainly because they only talk about things they are interested in, but these things make others feel bored.
Twenty-one, be an ordinary person with a firm belief.
22. I never want what others give me, but give it to others.
Twenty-three, people fail not because they don't have faith, but because they can't put faith into action and stick to it.
Being kind to others is not a responsibility, but a pleasure, because it can improve your health and happiness. When you treat others well, you treat yourself well.
25. Praise to others is just a euphemism for self-praise.
26. Have I ever advocated that we should bow our heads and face all the disasters that befall us? Never! That's just a fatalistic proposition. As long as we have a chance to save the situation, we will struggle.
If a person really cares about others and waits for others to be interested in you, he will make more friends in two months than in two years.
Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. This is one of the ways to make others like you.
If you are sure, you are right half the day. Then you can go to Wall Street, make a million dollars a day, buy a yacht and marry a dancer. If you are not sure, why blame others for their mistakes?
Happiness is contagious. Only by making others happy can you make yourself happy.
As long as you believe that you are doing the right thing, don't care what others say.
Thirty-two, this heart has its own reason, and it is not known by reason.
Try to help others, and the fear will disappear.
There is a saying in the world that "time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time should obviously be punished.
If you are criticized, it is because criticizing you can give him a sense of satisfaction. This also shows that you are successful and attractive. Small people are often proud of the shortcomings or mistakes of great people. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised compliment.
It won't be long before anyone's credit will be destroyed. Even if you are a very cautious person, you only need to ignore it occasionally and follow it occasionally, then a good reputation can be destroyed immediately. Therefore, it is extremely important to form the habit of being cautious.
37. Love is not loving a perfect person, but taking a period of time to understand that the other person is an imperfect person. Admit that we are not perfect, and then try to understand each other's shortcomings, and go hand in hand with the person who still loves himself even if he sees his own shortcomings.
Thirty-eight, 70% patients will get better as long as they can eliminate their fears and worries.
For all of us, the most important thing in life is not to look forward to the future, but to sort out the reality in front of us.
40. Difficulties may be a special gift from heaven, which will open another happy life.
4 1. What you think of you is not who you really are, but what you think you will become.
Forty-two, our fatigue is usually not because of the work itself, but because of anxiety, tension and unhappiness.
Forty-three, when you get along with people, you should remember. We are not people who deal with theories, but people who deal with feelings.
Forty-four, women can be beautiful, but they have to be smart. Wisdom can reshape beauty, and only wisdom can make beauty permanent and have qualitative connotation.
45. More noble dedication than one's own life will bring real success and happiness and more friends.
46. The world is full of people who are selfish and willing to take advantage, so a few selfless people can achieve great success, and they will hardly meet competitors.
47. Remembering other people's names and then calling them out easily is equivalent to giving others a clever and effective compliment.
48. If you pay enough attention to a certain result, you will certainly achieve it.
49. Always think from the other person's point of view and look at things from the other person's point of view, which may become a key factor affecting your career.
Although we are ordinary people, it doesn't mean that we have to suffer. The only thing we can do is to face up to life itself and keep learning from experience to ensure that there are no regrets in the future.
5 1. If we inspire the people we contact and let them know their hidden energy, what we do is not only to change their will, but also to change their destiny.
I don't know how to be different from what I did.
Fifty-three, if you want to provoke each other, you only need to use fierce criticism as a weapon; Even if the criticism is reasonable, the other party may hold a grudge for life.
54. If your behavior exudes happiness, you can't always be depressed psychologically.
55. Everyone is eager to be taken seriously.
You and I are just a drop of water in the long river of history. It is not our personal existence that creates history, but the progress of history that gives birth to your life and mine.
57. Don't judge people, lest they be judged.
Fifty-eight, people will not die of overwork, but they will die of debauchery and trouble.
59. I have no time to quarrel and regret. No one can force me to hate them. I think of those kind people who have helped me, and I can't repay them!
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
6 1. Happiness is to find someone who can warm your heart and spend your life slowly. Cherish the people who love you, cherish the people you love, cherish the people who always accompany you, protect you and warm you. You always think of you as the whole world.
Sixty-two, if a person just lives day by day without any hope, his life actually stops.
The only way to influence others in the world is to talk about what they need and tell them how to get it.
64. The most obvious sign of weakness and laziness is that you want to succeed but don't want to bear the price of success. To get anything worth appreciating and owning, you must work happily, which is the secret of strength in practice.
65. Correct thinking is itself a kind of creation.
Make yourself more peaceful, open-minded and tolerant. Everyone has his difficulties, so why force others?
We will soon find that our opinions are not far apart. There are few differences, but many similarities.
Sixty-eight, people need balance, just as nature needs balance. People who don't respect others' feelings will only cause others' disgust and hatred in the end.
The world is full of interesting things to do. Don't live a boring life in this exciting world.
Let the power of faith and the feeling of peace of mind fill your heart.
Seventy-one, the phrase "secular time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
72. Rest is not doing nothing. People's rest is actually making up for some physical losses.
The most important thing is the ability to make friends. To say its essence is actually the ability to appreciate the advantages of others.
Seventy-four, only 15% of a person's success depends on professional knowledge, while 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and interpersonal skills.
Seventy-five, a person's success, only because of his professional skills, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and his ability to deal with people.
76. The way to achieve psychological peace is to change people's minds. You should try to cultivate a comfortable and natural state of mind.
Seventy-seven, tension is a habit, and relaxation is also a habit.
If you want to be a good talker, you must first be a person who pays tribute and listens.
I find that exercise is the best way to overcome anxiety. When you are upset, use more muscles and worry less. The result will be surprisingly good. For me, when I exercise, I am left with troubles.
The way to cultivate self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to do and get a record of successful experience.
8 1. We all have abilities and opportunities that we don't understand, and we may all do things that we never dreamed of.
Fighting can never be satisfied, but when you are modest, you can get more than you expected.
83. Difficulties are undoubtedly the best shield for those who like to evade their responsibilities.
Hatred can't hurt each other's hair, but it turns their life into purgatory.
Eighty-five, life is like a journey, all the way hard, all the way scenery. What you can see is your realm of life. Always seeing people who are better than yourself shows that you are going uphill; Always seeing people who are not as good as yourself means that you are going downhill. It is better to think about change than to complain.
86. Fear is mostly caused by ignorance and uncertainty.
87. Life is a rebound board. Whatever you give, you have to take it back.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, effort, consideration and dedication.
If you want others to be friendly to you, get along well with your colleagues, and handle the relationship between superiors and subordinates, you must not touch the scars in others' hearts.