You may find many answers: reading, walking, making tea, watching movies, exercising and surfing the Internet. But you can't do anything well or are too lazy to do it.
The point I want to express in this article is: How can you be free? Will there be leisure time in life? No way!
I think people can be called advanced animals because they can think independently. So, what you think of leisure is not that you have nothing to do, but that you are "thinking" about what to do!
You should turn what you should do in your spare time into what you should do. This is something to talk about.
Our life course is actually a struggle course.
As soon as we are born, we will struggle to grow up; When you begin to remember, fight for play; After going to school, strive for results; After graduation, work hard; After work, strive for performance; After marriage, fight for children; Old people struggle for health.
Since your life is full of struggle, how can you be idle? Even if you are surfing the Internet, playing games and exercising now, it is only for fun, for health and for achieving your goals more easily and happily.
Therefore, please don't use the word "leisure" to describe your current state in the future. Because you should not be idle! You should make your life orderly, full and happy!
First, you should plan your day. Of course, your plan may be disrupted by unexpected things, but it can also be adjusted quickly!
This plan should be compact, scientific and rhythmic. This plan doesn't have to be written down one by one, but at least you have to think it over in advance!
In a village in Guangdong, there is an old man in his 80s. He exercises with a group of friends who practice Tai Ji Chuan every morning, but instead of Tai Chi, he creates a set of boxing, which is very fast, just the opposite of Tai Chi.
When the reporter interviewed him, he said: "I have no patience, and I really can't practice the slow moves of Tai Chi. I am used to the fast-paced way of doing things. "
What should we do?
Do what you like! Do what you are interested in! Do what you are used to! How can you find pleasure in dogma and parrot-like life? How can we achieve our goal?
When I was a child, my teacher taught us to face difficulties bravely, but many real problems in life need us to stop and give up properly!
Sometimes giving up is the best choice. What I want to emphasize is that you don't run away from giving up whenever you encounter problems. It's a comprehensive consideration: if I solve the problem, what can I get and what can I lose? If I give up, what's the gain and loss?
Give a simple example. There are many big and small questions in the exam of life. The scores of these questions are equal, and the difficult ones are easy, and the easy ones are mostly. Moreover, the sorting is not from easy to difficult, but chaotic. If you finish all the easy questions in a limited time, your income will be maximized.
And some people often waste time on difficult problems, and the final score can't bear to look straight!
One more thing, in real life, some topics may be difficult for you and simple for others. Everyone should understand this truth! Therefore, it is not advisable to simply compare with others without preconditions.
Of course, you can also pay attention to the "drunken state" of WeChat official account in your spare time ~