How can we eliminate children's comparison psychology?

1, parents should actively guide. In fact, every child will have a little comparison psychology more or less, just watching the children show that aspect of comparison psychology. If it is material, then parents must pay attention to it; If children's comparison psychology is used in their studies, it is a manifestation of self-discipline. Therefore, when children have a comparative psychology, parents should guide their children to make positive comparisons, which can not only improve their children, but also help them form a good habit of autonomous learning.

Parents must set an example.

Parents are children's first role models. If parents compare with each other, then most children will be like their parents, and they are likely to compare with each other.

Therefore, in order to eliminate children's comparison psychology, parents should lead by example, eliminate children's vanity and set a good example for children. At the same time, parents should learn to seize all educational opportunities and lead their children in the right direction. 3. Help children establish a correct sense of superiority.

Many times, children are compared because of the influence of the surrounding environment. When others have it but they don't, children will gradually feel inferior, thus stimulating the demand for Excellence.

Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more and build their children's sense of superiority on more meaningful things. It is not a material comparison, but a pursuit of a higher level on the basis of the basic economy.

4. Reject the child's unreasonable demands.

Parents spoil their children too much and give them whatever they want. In fact, it is easy to cause children's egocentric psychology and aggravate their comparison psychology.

Therefore, parents should learn to reject their children appropriately. When a child really wants something, ask the child's reasons clearly. After the child tells the reason, parents can judge whether they can satisfy the child. If it is reasonable, they should buy it for their children. If it is unreasonable, they should directly refuse.