My mother always lives carefully. I feel very distressed. What should my mother do?

Nowadays, many elderly parents live in this state, especially when women reach middle age and have no work income. She is very cautious in the face of her husband and children. She often looks at other people's faces and acts for fear that she has done something wrong and offended others. I remember that cheerful and smiling mother disappeared.

Ever since I knew that my mother's life was in a bad state, I felt sorry for her. Then the first thing you need to change is your attitude towards your mother. Don't get too emotional in front of her Smile at her when you are in a good mood, or you will find fault if you are in a bad mood. Mom is very sensitive. She is old, and her reaction ability and thinking ability are not as good as before. You should be more patient with her and spend more time with her. Let her see your respect and concern for her. The love of children is her greatest pillar.

Secondly, you should praise your mother more and make her feel that she is still a useful person you need. When mom worked hard to cook a delicious table, you should say, wow! Mom, you are great! Mom, I like your sweet and sour pork ribs! When your mother washes all the dirty clothes for you, you should express your gratitude to your mother. Thank you, mom. Children with mothers are really happy.

Finally, you should also encourage your mother to go out of the narrow area of the family, expand her social life and become confident and beautiful. My mother devoted all her love and energy to this family. She cares about everyone in her family, but forgets to love herself. You can ask your mother to go out with her old sisters when she is free, or go dancing in the square at night. When waiting for the rest day, take mom to get a facial, get a perm and buy a beautiful skirt. This will make my mother change her attitude towards life and stop being so cautious.