In fact, many of the child's personality and behavior and before the family education has a lot to do, if a child lives in a good family education under the conditions of growth, then the grown-up children may be better in doing things, on the contrary, in a dark and no harmony in the family environment under the adult children, the character will be more isolated.
To cultivate children's self-confidence, first of all, from the parents themselves, to give children a harmonious and happy family, a good way to educate and guide the children correctly, so that children from a young age to set up their own values, outlook on life, world view. Sometimes children in the encounter of small difficulties, parents first thought of not distressed children, but first to let the child to face the solution to this problem, to train children to think independently, and finally parents to slowly guide him, so that the growth of the child will have a subjective consciousness, and problem-solving ability, the future face of the difficulties will have enough self-confidence, not too much dependence on the heart, and always believe that you are the best! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
Positively encourage them to let the children healthy and happy into the big life, life needs us to adapt to the environment, if the child does not have self-confidence, then he will be nothing, in the face of so many problems will be thrown back to their parents, dependence is too strong, the heart is very weak, usually parents can give the child the appropriate pressure, the animals are the same, the fittest survival of the truth, if you don't have enough confidence to live in the world, then you have to give the child the appropriate pressure. If you don't have enough confidence to live in this world, then you will eventually be eliminated by society.
Give the child some space for independent living, don't children encounter a little problem, either in the school who is bullied, in the school what problems, parents are the first time to come forward to speak, parents speak of course, but some times some problems can be handed over to the child to deal with, after all, the child learns in the school for such a long time, there are some things they have to learn to deal with, so that In order to become a big, through these things so that the child understands, not so much the problem of parents can reimburse themselves, the world is not so good, there are too many things that happen to themselves, they still have to go to the solution, so that over time, it will let the child will be from a strong dependence into the last have a sense of independence, it will be from a weak child to become a strong and confident child.