In real life, its operation in the family is increasingly replaced by a family of three. What parents are most concerned about is nothing more than the safety, study and growth of their children in winter vacation.
■ According to the survey of students
Nearly 70% of the students want to stay at home.
The survey results show that nearly 70% students are willing to stay at home after the winter vacation. Students who choose to stay at home generally believe that they spend a lot of time playing with their classmates and friends at school and have great learning pressure. Now that they finally have a holiday, they just want to stay at home and relax and do something they like. However, 65,438+04% and 65,438+05% people often choose to play with their classmates and stay at relatives' homes (grandparents' homes), and the students who choose these ways all show lively and active personality.
Most children who choose to stay at home say that they are "not very familiar" with the use of household appliances, accounting for about 65%. They only know a little, but they are not very proficient. Only 20% students think they are "familiar with or proficient in household appliances", and these children often help their parents with housework at home; The remaining 15% students chose "I don't know anything about home appliances". About 50% of these students admit that if a person is at home, or out of curiosity, or wants to show off his abilities to his parents, he will explore the use of home appliances. When asked about "pay attention to safety", most students said "I haven't thought about it" and "it's good to see parents use it at ordinary times", said Zhang, a sixth-grade primary school student.
The students want to spend their holidays freely.
Children are the heart of parents, and it is every parent's wish to hope that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. In this survey, many students said that during the holidays, their parents told them the most about "safety" and "study", accounting for more than 45% respectively. One of the students, Wang, told reporters that every holiday, his parents are full of worries about his safety. For example, don't tamper with electrical appliances at home, don't trust the warm invitation of strangers easily, and must obey the traffic rules when going out.
Learning is also a problem that parents pay great attention to their children. Leaving school on holiday, the school has no strong learning atmosphere, and the children are still young and have poor self-control. He suddenly broke free from the bondage of his teacher, especially the temptation of novelty and fun things during the holiday. Will the child's heart become a runaway wild horse? About 60% of the students said that their parents hope that they can finish their holiday homework on time after the holiday, read more extracurricular books, attend cram schools, participate in quality training camps and experience.
Although parents want their children to spend as much time on their studies as possible, they don't think so. Nearly 70% of the students want to "do what they like", so Xiao Wang told reporters bluntly: "I hope my winter vacation is colorful. I don't want to go to cram school and spend too much time studying. I want to watch more TV and extracurricular books, get together with friends, participate in meaningful expansion activities, and go to the park with others. Being trapped at home by my parents to learn special skills, doing problems or being forced to go to cram school is my least favorite. "
■ According to the survey of parents
It is safer to attend a training class than to stay at home.
Among the 20 parents of primary school students surveyed randomly, 18 parents were too busy to take care of their children at home during the winter vacation, accounting for 90%. Because of the school holiday, only the parents of two teachers are resting at home. Among them, 8 parents will let their parents take care of their children, and 3 families will choose to send their children back to their hometown. Nearly half of the parents surveyed said they would leave their children alone at home; Another third of parents want their children to participate in the hardship experience training camp. On the one hand, they can be supervised, on the other hand, they can learn to suffer hardships and get exercise and improvement in their minds and abilities.
During the long winter vacation, parents who work outside during the day are most worried about their children's water, electricity, gas, fire protection, transportation and personal safety. "Every holiday, I leave my children alone at home, and my heart is hanging at work." Ms. Zhang, who works in a government department, said that the children's grandparents are not in this city. She and her husband are both working in the office, and they are not at home all day, so they can only "close" their 8-year-old son. What should I do if playing video games is dangerous? If strangers come, open the door for them. What should I do if I meet the bad guys? The couple are also worried about their children's poor self-control. What if they just watch TV at home, forget to do their homework and neglect their studies after the holiday?
There are not a few parents who feel the same way as Ms. Zhang. In the project "How to choose children's winter vacation", 8 out of 20 parents chose "going to cram school". Six people want to report their children to the winter vacation training camp; At work, Mr. Huang has a general view: going to cram school can "waste" the winter vacation, and many parents around him think that if their children enroll in cram school, won't their children fall behind others? In addition, it is safer for teachers to take care of cram schools than to stay at home alone, or spend some money to participate in growth inspirational training camps organized by local organizations, hoping that children can make a breakthrough.
It is found that only self-employed Ms. Ma is willing to take time off to take her children out for a trip. She plans to let her 10-year-old children go to the store to "work" when she returns from her trip. "Although she was not asked to do anything, it was a sweet and bitter experience!"
■ Expert advice
Read the safety manual to your child in advance.
For a child who is alone at home, it is particularly important to remind his parents to write down his home phone number and teach him to use fire alarm, Fei Jing and emergency phone numbers correctly. Guide children to read safety manuals, strengthen safety knowledge, learn to save themselves, and pay attention to the combination of hands and brains.
Pupils are best managed by adults.
During the winter vacation, although many parents can't take care of their children at home, they still have to do their duty of guardianship. In China, it is still difficult for parents of several families to take turns taking time off to take care of multiple children. Even some parents bring their children to the office, which is out of place for outsiders. I suggest that children in the lower grades of primary school be taken care of by adults, and families with good family conditions can consider hiring a nanny.
Whether you can enter the training class depends on the situation. Not every child is suitable for training class. Every weekend, parents should take their children into nature, visit libraries, gymnasiums, museums, or participate in the experience activity of spiritual growth-parent-child training camp, hoping that parents can really enter their children's spiritual world.
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Last winter vacation, a brigade of police conducted a special "test" on primary school students in their jurisdiction. The police in the police station disguised as salesmen and strangers knocked on the doors of four households without parents at home. Through the test, several children playing alone at home almost immediately opened the door without asking the identity of the caller and let the disguised police enter the house. When the police asked what measures should be taken if they met suspicious people, some of these children said "find their parents", some said "shout loudly" and one child replied "I don't know". They didn't know to call 1 10 in time.
Safety tips:
Children pay special attention to:
1. When a person is at home, don't touch electrical appliances at will, pay attention to the safety of electricity and gas, and don't play with fire and water at will.
Don't open the door to strangers easily. In case of emergency, dial 1 10 as soon as possible.
3. When going out, you must pay attention to safety, obey the traffic rules, master the common sense of traffic safety, and avoid rampaging on the road.
4. Don't flip the drugs, rodenticides, disinfectants and pesticides at home at will, so as to avoid accidental poisoning.
5. Don't play with inflammable and explosive materials, such as fireworks.
Parents should pay special attention: don't put too much pressure on children, let go appropriately!
1. If the child is too young, try not to leave the child alone at home, but entrust it to relatives, friends or colleagues.
2. If family conditions permit, let children participate in some experiential growth training camps, so that children can feel new and unique experiences.
3. Keep hot liquids such as hot water and soup out of children's reach to avoid scalding children.
4. If the child is dislocated, pay attention to: a. Don't tamper with the dislocated joint; B. If dislocated in the hand, arm, shoulder or chin, the injured person can be moved; C applying an ice pack to the wound can reduce swelling and relieve pain, and then send the injured to the hospital as soon as possible.
5. Cramp: If it occurs in the calf, pull the toes forward and upward; If you are in other parts, you can gently massage; If paralysis and tingling still appear, you should see a doctor immediately.
6. If the child is poisoned by taking drugs by mistake, first aid methods: A. If the sick child is still awake, let him drink a lot of cold boiled water to dilute the drugs, lick his throat with his fingers and spit out the drugs in his stomach; B. If the sick child is in a coma, put clothes on his shoulders to bend his head backwards, and then send him to the hospital for treatment; C. If the sick child stops breathing, give artificial respiration immediately; D. Check whether there is any medicine or medicine bottle left for the doctor to see, which is helpful for diagnosis.