One,
Willing to share with each other
1, willing to share each other's daily life
We are willing to share every bit of our daily life with each other. What happens, happy, unhappy, funny things, even if it's just a short video I just brushed casually, will be habitually sent to you at the first time. Life can be dull, but I am willing to turn dull life into "little luck" for two people with you.
We are both getting better.
Before you, he may be an idiot who knows nothing, but after being with you, he gradually learns to shoulder family responsibilities, take better care of you and your children, and give you a backing that you can rely on at any time. So are you. After being with him, the whole person seems to shine from the inside out. Friends will praise you for being more and more beautiful, more and more beautiful, and your temper is getting better and better, and you will be more tolerant and understanding.
Second,
Get along very comfortably
They are husband and wife and friends.
Another bond besides love is not children, not money, but about common spiritual growth. In the most helpless and vulnerable time, there is TA to hold up your chin, straighten your spine, make you strong, stay with you, and share the same fate with * * *. In addition to love, we should be loyal to each other and never give up. * * *
4. Be yourself at ease
With each other, you don't need to be nervous, worry about saying something wrong or doing something wrong, and please each other with grievances. You both know that "you love me and I am safe".
Third,
Respect each other and solve problems together.
5, * * * Use to solve problems, don't run away.
When there is a contradiction or dispute, we will find a solution together, instead of choosing the cold war or leaving to hurt each other, and our relationship will not be affected by the quarrel, but we are very clear. Every quarrel is to solve problems, not to destroy feelings.
Step 6 respect each other's boundaries
You like fishing, I like script killing; You like chatting with your buddies, and I like shopping and chatting with my girlfriends. We accept different hobbies and our own circles, and we don't need to participate in everything, because love is not bound, and marriage makes you and me "us", but you and I are not only close lovers, but also independent individuals.
Fourth,
Honest communication
7. Have the same values.
For example, I think we should set aside some family expenses for investment, and you think it is most reliable to deposit them in the bank. Although we have different views, our values are the same. It doesn't mean that you are responsible for all the expenses, and the money is in my personal account. This is called value incompatibility. The values of two people are the same. If they are both dedicated to the good of this family, they can manage their marriage well.
8. Be able to communicate frankly
We can be honest with each other. I am willing to express my needs and thoughts with you, and you are also willing to tell me your stress and anxiety. We don't have to guess at each other. In this relationship, both of us have enough sense of security, and the relationship can be closer.
Five,
Mutual tolerance and dedication
Appreciate each other's advantages and accept each other's shortcomings.
We all know each other is not perfect, but we can also see each other's bright spots, and we will often praise and discover each other's advantages. At the same time, we will not dislike this person because of each other's shortcomings, but we can tolerate each other.
10. Pay and return are relatively balanced.
In any kind of relationship, we will pursue a psychological balance, and so will marriage. If the pay and return are not equal, the relationship between two people will be full of pressure and contradictions. If two people adhere to the principle of reciprocity and actively respond to each other's efforts, then you will give me a little surprise during the holidays, and I will also give you some special dishes you like to eat. When I am sick, you will take care of me carefully, and I will not give you a hug and care. This kind of intimate relationship is hard to think of for a long time.