Parents misunderstand the teacher, what should children do?

Case The child is in the third grade, and the teacher is allowed to take mechanical pencil. The children buy the beautiful mechanical pencil they like. One day in class, Huahua found that her beloved mechanical pencil had disappeared, and there was an identical mechanical pencil in the opened pencil box. Huahua said to Han Han, "Why did you take my pen?" "Who took your pen?" "It's you, it's you!" "I didn't take it, I just didn't take it!" ..... two people had an argument. After the teacher knows, talk to them alone to understand the situation. The teacher first found Huahua, asked him where he came from, when and where he lost it, and found Hanhan to know where her pen came from. After investigation and analysis, the situation is that their pens are the same. This mechanical pencil is a culvert, and China and China mistakenly think that they have lost their pens. After school, Huahua found her mechanical pencil in her schoolbag. Huahua told the teacher that her mechanical pencil had been found. The teacher said to Huahua, "Mind your own things. If you lose them, you should calm down. You can't yell at your classmates. You must apologize to Han Han tomorrow. " "Yes, sir." Han Han is very unhappy when he comes home. Her mother asked Han Han why he was unhappy. Han Han told her that the teacher was looking for her. Han Han thinks the teacher doesn't trust him. Huahua lost something. Why don't you ask huahua instead of me? Mother also thinks that the teacher's handling of the problem is unfair, especially because it is related to the quality of the child. The more she thought about it, the more angry she became. She sent a text message to the teacher: "Teacher, you are so unfair to Han Han. Huahua lost her pen. Why ask Han Han and Hua Hua? " As a parent, I think you are unqualified. As the mother of the child, I am very dissatisfied with you. "From the content point of view, Han Han's mother is very angry and thinks that the teacher is unfair to the children. She thinks that the teacher only investigated her own children and didn't ask them well. When the teacher saw the message, he felt wronged and angry. Confrontation and analysis of difficult problems ① Children are young, do not see the problem comprehensively, do not fully understand the teacher's practices, and cannot understand the teacher's educational methods. I mistakenly think that the teacher is partial and can't fully reflect the problems for my parents when I go home. Avoid the important and choose the words that are beneficial to you, which leads to misunderstanding between parents and teachers. Parents listened to their children, but they didn't fully understand and carefully analyze what happened. They look at the problem from their parents' point of view and have opinions and dissatisfaction with the way the teacher handles the problem. Parents think that teachers are unfair to their children, and the text messages they send are a bit radical. In many years' work, teachers have dealt with this kind of thing a lot and didn't take it seriously, so they didn't communicate with their parents in time to inform the situation. Parents' concerns about this matter and their children were not taken into account. Solution ① It is normal for parents to care about their children's quality. When children tell their parents what happened, parents should be rational, clearly understand what happened, and take the initiative to communicate with teachers and ask the truth if they are not clear. Parents should believe what their children say and analyze whether these words are reasonable and comprehensive. It is human nature and understandable that parents are not calm enough to see their children wronged. Parents should trust their teachers. It is the basic professional ethics of every teacher to treat every student fairly, regardless of their academic performance and discipline. Teachers will be very cautious when dealing with students' problems, especially those related to students' quality. I also hope that parents can understand the teacher's work. ② Students are the intermediate link between parents and teachers, and play a bridge role. If students convey things to their parents with reservations for some reasons, it will inevitably make parents unable to understand the overall situation, misunderstand the teacher, and make people irrational and contradictory. Therefore, parents and teachers should attach importance to educating their children honestly and realistically. In fact, as long as things are clear, clear, empathy, the problem will naturally be solved. Everything that teachers and parents do is for the healthy growth of children, and the combination of family education and school education can achieve good educational results. Educating children is not just about teachers or parents. Teachers and parents are not contradictory sides, but should become the joint force of education. Therefore, teachers and parents should understand and understand each other.