? Not long ago, my friend Sister Chen's daughter came back from graduate school abroad and was going to work with her parents in a third-tier city, so relatives and frien
? Not long ago, my friend Sister Chen's daughter came back from graduate school abroad and was going to work with her parents in a third-tier city, so relatives and friends around her also had different opinions. Some people feel sorry for this, saying that "studying abroad is hard and you should go to a big city to develop." Others said, "Girls should stay with their parents. In the future, parents will also have a care when they are old. " In short, everything is said from one's own standpoint.
But everyone has a choice that suits their lifestyle. There is no distinction between good and bad. Only the right is the best choice. Big cities have advantages and disadvantages. First of all, advantages: many employment opportunities, rapid development, suitable for young people to start businesses, work hard, have knowledge and high wages. Secondly, there are disadvantages: the working place is far from the residence, the commuting time is long, and the competition is fierce. Young people need to endure hardships, have a strong desire to change their destiny, and survive the most bitter stage before they can have a foothold. People who are introverted and pursue a quiet life are not suitable for the fast pace of big cities.
Sister Huang's only daughter went to work in a foreign company for two years after studying in Britain. At the age of 26, she is busy with work and has no time to talk about her partner. Persuaded by her mother, she also returned to her parents. At present, she is a middle school teacher and leads a stable life. Sister Huang is all smiles.
? After studying abroad, Ling Jie's son applied for a job in an enterprise in Shanghai, who was in charge of the training of unit personnel, often worked overtime until late at night, and usually organized activities and wrote plans. The 30-year-old boy also has no time to fall in love, which makes Ling Jie very worried. When I saw Chen Jie's daughter come back, I always admired her and said, "It would be nice if the child came back. It is best to have a stable job. Don't look for a job that is too tired. "
Just like that sentence: others only care about whether you fly high or not, and never care about whether you are tired or not.
Sister Chen is open-minded. She said that her daughter is willing to stay in the field and will not drag her feet. And welcome her back. But my daughter is willing to stay with her parents, find a stable job first, accumulate some work experience, and then go abroad for development in a few years. Sister Chen once joked: "If a daughter stays in a big city and reaches retirement age, she can live with her daughter or her parents. As long as the daughter feels happy and lives happily, it is the same everywhere. "
It is a blessing for children to return to their parents, and it is also an acceptable way for parents to watch their children drift away. The concept of parents in the new era: it is an obligation to raise children, pay more attention to physical health, support the elderly themselves, and raise children without preventing old age.
Nowadays, more and more international students, 985 or 2 1 1 college graduates give up their efforts in big cities and choose to return to their hometown third-tier cities, just to live a stable life.
Don't care about other people's eyes and remarks. People live for themselves, and the best lifestyle is what they like, because the future lifestyle is their own.