1, one minute contact and companionship
This kind of companionship is not a scene where you are alone and God is absent. Must be quality and effective company. Even for a minute, let the children feel their importance and attention, even if it is a small hug, a tight handshake, a sincere touch on the child's cheek, a heartfelt smile, a kiss and so on. It's just a little effort for adults, but what is passed on to children is love and strength.
I remember one time when I was writing a manuscript, the child rushed over and kissed me quietly on the cheek. Then ask me, mom, is love power? Judging from the personal experience that this simple kiss brought me sweet feelings, I answered the child with great certainty, yes! And respond to her with the same action, affirm her, give her confidence and strength, and then I saw the child jump up in a good mood and run to play happily.
2. Listen and answer for one minute.
Don't turn a blind eye and often interrupt and deny children's statements just because adults' affairs are important and children's words are not important.
I remember when I was a child, my voice was very low, and I was often drowned, interrupted by adults and ignored. Over time, I don't like expressing, I can't express, I don't want to express, and I don't know what to say. People say I am introverted. In fact, only I know, because what you said is not important, and no one takes it seriously.
Nowadays, when we adults are talking about things, we will feel disgusted and annoyed if our children interrupt us unreasonably. Put it another way, children don't want their words to be interrupted or disrespected. If you can listen to your child patiently and carefully, or choose to turn a blind eye to her words and watch her reactions and emotions, it will be completely different. The former brings self-confidence and liveliness, while the latter leaves children taciturn.
3. One minute of encouragement and affirmation
Encouraging and affirming children's small attempts and efforts, even a little progress, or attempts that have no meaning at all, can help children build confidence and exert their creativity.
No matter what the child does, it doesn't matter, and it's no big deal. You have been there before, and you are used to seeing flowers blooming and falling, but your child's life has just begun. Keeping fresh and curious about everything is the source of creativity. And your encouragement and affirmation are very helpful for him to continue to exert his creativity and cultivate a positive character.
4. One-minute game and participation
For adults, these seem useless and boring, but they are great fun for children. There is no way to get along with them. They can enter the children's inner world more than their parents can play, play games, do handicrafts and so on.
This is the best way to enhance parent-child affection. It is the supreme love and glory for children and the silent love of parents.
At the same time, during the game, you will find ways to solve the problems you encounter together. The spirit of overcoming difficulties and practical methods can help children learn how to solve problems and learn flexibility in dealing with life problems, which will be remembered by him all his life. It seems that playing with children is a kind of game, but it conveys love and ideas!
5, one minute criticism and correction
When a child does something wrong, he must take it seriously and not let it go. It doesn't matter if the child is small. Help children establish a correct outlook on life and world, starting with the accumulation of every little thing.
Don't repeat when criticizing, and don't make the key points clear. Be sure to explain the pros and cons and hazards to your child, and tell your child the reasons and correct practices with a gentle attitude and a slow tone. Let children understand from an early age that the untouchable bottom line is absolutely untouchable. Cultivate a sense of rules from an early age, and have awe!
6. One-minute examples and persistence
To prepare for a protracted war, education is a long-term and unremitting war, which cannot be accomplished overnight.
As parents, the image we present to our children should be positive, positive and strict with ourselves. What kind of person do you want your children to be in the future? Work hard in that direction first Don't pin all your hopes on children. On the way to struggle, if we work together, children will have more fighting spirit and strength.
Being yourself is the best education for children, and it is an example of spring breeze and rain.
7. One minute introspection and review
Three provinces a day, less mistakes. Even a wise man will worry, but he will lose!
We are not saints, and all our views and practices are not necessarily completely correct. As long as you pay more attention to your words and deeds, pay attention to your child's actions and see the educational achievements she has absorbed. If you do it right, you must supervise the implementation, and if you do it wrong, you must actively improve it. Frankly admit to your child that you are not doing well or doing wrong, and guide your child to be a person who dares to admit his mistakes and correct them with practical actions.
Only by bravely admitting mistakes and actively correcting them can we make continuous progress and the road of life will be promoted step by step!
8. One-minute planning and implementation
Everything must be planned, especially the cultivation of children. You can't use three minutes of enthusiasm to confuse or do whatever you want on a whim.
In order to let children get a better education and grow up at the same time, it is necessary to make a daily plan, or a monthly or annual timetable, and act according to the plan, and implement it step by step.
On the one hand, we can see that we are getting closer and closer to the goal every day, and there are constant surprises; On the other hand, after breaking down the big goal into small goals, you will feel that you have a definite plan and won the game. You are full of motivation from beginning to end, and you will not give up easily when you encounter difficulties. Learn to calm down and think, so as to find a solution to the problem, get out of the predicament, move towards a higher height and see more beautiful scenery.
Mom and Dad, if you agree with Pettitte, you might as well work hard with your children and forge ahead towards your goals! If you can do the above, Pettitte has every reason to believe that you will cultivate an excellent baby!
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