1, always thinking about interfering with children's lives.
For the elderly, they are kind to their children's life and work, and they will also give their children some experience as experienced people. But the concept of children and parents will definitely be different and there will be conflicts. When the elderly get different opinions from their children, it may affect their mood, which is actually not good. There is a good saying: children and grandchildren are blessed by their own children and grandchildren, so it is better to live in their old age and not to interfere too much in their children's lives.
2. Update the concept of raising a baby for each generation.
Nowadays, the education and cultivation of children is becoming a top priority for the younger generation of parents. But in the eyes of the elderly, there are still some old ideas about treating children. They always feel that children are disobedient and can't be changed. They always like to feed and interfere with their parents' parenting style. In fact, this is also wrong. And it is easy to cause conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, causing unnecessary emotions!
3. Always delay the illness and don't want to see a doctor.
The older generation always likes to ignore some small physical problems, and only when they can't bear it will they want to go to the hospital for observation and treatment. In fact, this is also very wrong. Are you afraid of spending money? Afraid of causing trouble to children? Afraid of going to the hospital is unlucky? These ideas really can't exist anymore. The longer the delay, the greater the potential harm and the more trouble it will bring, so this concept cannot exist!