I was younger when I was pregnant, and my body and energy were at their peak. Even if some mothers give birth to a second child a few years apart from the first child, they will have some physical injuries and feel much more tired than the first child.
Many mothers are already in their thirties when they have a second child, and they are only in their twenties when they give birth. Nearly 10 years gap, there has been an obvious gap in physical function.
Second, take care of a baby.
You only need to take care of yourself when you are pregnant, but you still need to take care of the baby when you have a second child. At this time, we have to spend some energy on a baby.
If a child has gone to school, he has to take care of his homework, take a bath and eat. Some mothers are pregnant with a second child and have to go to work, so they will feel very tired and lack energy.
If the two children are not much different in age, one child is still young and still can't understand the speech. I don't know how hard my mother is working now, but I'm still pestering her to hug and feed. In this way, doing everything by yourself will naturally make you feel a lot tired.
Third, family care is not so comprehensive.
During the first birth, everyone was very careful for fear of problems. Whether it's food or use, you should take extra care of it. But when I get to the second child, I won't be so careful, because I already have the experience of having children.
Especially for husbands and mothers-in-law, having a second child is not so "expensive". Many things feel almost enough. That's how everyone comes over. There's not so much pressure. Psychological gap will also make pregnant mommy feel tired.