The fetus was found to be "deformed", and the pregnant mother insisted on giving birth despite dissuasion.
Seeing a post on the internet makes people feel very sad. When Ms. Zhang was pregnant for 6 months, the fetus was diagnosed with severe thalassemia. At that time, Ms. Zhang did not believe that running several hospitals was the result, and the doctor suggested inducing labor. Because children with severe thalassemia need blood transfusion at birth, and then they need blood transfusion every month, most of them are difficult to live to adulthood. Considering the economic pressure and the pain that the child needs to bear, the family members all say that they should induce labor for the child.
But Ms. Zhang doesn't want to, because she can feel the fetal movement. She didn't want to give up, so she didn't listen to dissuasion and gave birth to a child, saying that it would be fine if she had a child. However, the god of wealth did not care for Ms. Zhang. She was very thin after the baby was born. Every month, she needs a blood transfusion, which is a big expense. Moreover, the child is weak and sick, and the whole family is dragged down. In the face of such a thing, some people lament the greatness of Ms. Zhang, while others say that she is selfish, and everyone has different opinions.
Love or selfishness?
The reason for love. When the pregnant woman was found to have a deformed fetus in her body, the doctor and her family advised her to give up, but she believed that the baby had feelings for being with herself for such a long time, and the baby was also connected with her own blood, let alone giving up the child's heart. As the saying goes: mother and child are linked to each other. Even if she knows that the child is defective, even if she knows how much she and her family will pay for the child in the future, she is reluctant to give up the child. This is her mother's selfless love.
Selfish reasons. Pregnant women are determined to give birth to the fetus despite everyone's dissuasion when they know that the fetus is abnormal. The arrival of the deformed fetus not only has a serious impact on the family economy, but also bears undue ridicule and harm, which is also the reason why the mother is selfish.
The family influence of the birth of a deformed fetus on the fetus itself. When pregnant women decide to give birth to a deformed fetus, they should consider the influence of the birth of a deformed fetus on the family and the fetus itself. As soon as the deformed fetus came out, many families were slowly dragged down by the fetus, and some even failed to save the life of the deformed fetus.
How to avoid unhealthy fetus?
Premarital check-ups are free, but many people still show disdain because they think it is disrespectful to each other. However, this idea is wrong. Since the two sides decided to get married, it means that two people face it together and minimize the damage. Isn't it the best? Pre-marital examination can check whether both parties have a history of genetic diseases to ensure prenatal and postnatal care.
Pregnant. Pregnancy preparation is also crucial. The health of both sides is the foundation of fetal health. It is also beneficial to give birth to a healthy fetus to quit smoking and drinking, exercise more and adjust the physical condition to the best degree in the first three months of pregnancy.
Nutrition during pregnancy. Nutritional supplements should be made according to different stages of pregnancy, and folic acid should be supplemented in the first trimester to prevent the fetus from being unhealthy. Don't touch radioactive things after pregnancy, and don't go to dangerous places to protect the health of the fetus.